
Over the last few weeks there have been incredible positive advancements by black males in society and in their portrayal in the media. Barack Obama clinched two more primaries, moving ever closer to the possibility of a monumental and historic presidency.
While in New York, Lieutenant Governor David Paterson rose from the ashes of the Governor Eliot Spitzer scandal to become a unifying force for the state. Today, he will be sworn in as New York's 55th governor; only the third black governor U.S. history and the first for that state.
These two men, not only demonstrate the ability of the intelligence and integrity of black men to bridge the country's racial divide, but both men are married to black women, exemplifying the strength and power the black family can possess.Yet, three men stood to overshadow these necessary and strong achievements. In stark contrast to these symbolic males, we were also bombarded with images of black males that show our dark side.
Last week, we saw the face two young black men who were allegedly involved in the shooting death of the University of North Carolina student body president. Just a week before, another black former serviceman was arrested for the shooting death and attempted rape of another white Georgia native attending Auburn University.
These individuals reinforce the stereotypes that black males are a menace to society and especially threatening to white women.
So, is it possible that for all the Obama's and Paterson's in the country to inspire our young black men, there will always just as many negative to distract them? And, if simply provide the possibility of a better life, better future, and better image isn't enough to stem the tide of violence by our community members, then what is?This question reminds me of the case of Bobby Cutts, Jr. Back in the summer of 2007, we were slammed with images of former Ohio police, who was convicted of killing his 26-year-old pregnant girlfriend. On the surface, Cutts was a black man doing well. He was a married cop and father who should've been on his way up in society; rather, he gave in to primal instincts and lost everything.
The number of articles and books written on the plight of black males is exhausting. Still, the reason for our continuous downward spiral despite advancements is not clearly explained. Blaming those outside of our community is frequently one explanation. But, the truth is bad choices like the ones made by the alleged shooters in the college student cases, is in large part the problem for black males in the US.
In March 2008, black men were shown the yin-and-yang of their possibilities. The question is will black males continue to take two steps forward or two steps backward?


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By: MC on 3/17/2008 12:30PM
I think that we, as black people, have continually blamed whites, slavery and society for oppressing us so long we refused to see the truth. The truth is that we have greater opportunities than our forefathers and yet continue to make poor decisions like havign babies out of wedlock and then giving it a cute name like Baby Momma. We continue to send shout outs to our black men in prison as if they are just away on vacation, rather than a plague on society. We continue to let our drug dealing, violent sons and daughters lie in our homes and neighborhoods without standing up and taking back the street by turning them in to the police. We continue to rely on public assistance rather than work any job, no matter how menial so we can stand up on our own two feet. And yeah, I know someone is going to belly ache about racism. However, racism today is more subtle. Unless, you or your children, we lynch, chased by dogs or banned by stores, racism should not be your excuse for getting ahead. Poverty cna also not be an excuse b/c our ancestors scrubbed toliet, took care of white people, were sharcroppers and did every job they could to provide for their families without a hand out. It is time for us to stand on the shoulders of those before us rather than leasning on their stuggle and using it to weight the race down.
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By: Just wondering? on 3/17/2008 1:46PM
I do hear you but, there are just as many young white males committing crimes as well. Have we looked at those and put those issue before the press?
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By: MC on 3/17/2008 2:07PM
Certainly, I agree that media does not provide fair and balance coverae of black people or its role in society. However, that would seem to be more reason to raise our game. As my grandmother used to tell me, "as black people we are always going to have to better, smarter and work harder than rights rather than only living up to the limited expectations they have of us." Have we stopped passing this message on to our children?
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By: Just wondering? on 3/17/2008 2:38PM
I hear ya MC and I too was taught the same things. But why do WE always have to be better and try harder. I just wonder if one day the playing field will ever change?? The standards as so different. And why would we write an article such as this one. This type of article is highlighting what they do so well themselves. Articles such as this is a slap in out own face.
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By: MC on 3/17/2008 3:12PM
Articles like this one hold blacks accountable for their actions. I believe, for too long, we've thought that it's best not to air our dirty laundry and call our people to the mat. However, look how far that's gotten us? Not very far so it's time to try a different approach. Perhaps shame, humility and tough love will do what apathy, blame and burying our head in the sand have not. As far as a level playing field, I think it is possible and certainly these two brothers are trying to make stride so that we achieve that. But consider how little time we have been free to be productive this society and think of hard this means we stil have to go.
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By: cy on 3/17/2008 6:49PM
I for one disagree with you mc, as a white male in the south I know for a fact racism is ever present and prevalent as it was for your ancestors. Sure my people aren't openly spitting on you lynching you or chasing you down with dogs or hoses but trust me I'm sad to say this but my a majority of my people's sole goal down here revolves around keeping your race down as a people a community and anything else by any means necessary and I think your lack of compassion toward your race, is exactly what helps racist people continue to keep your people down no matter what has happened and what they have done family is family, and your loved ones are your loved ones black people like you are a sad sight I'm not saying uphold what is wrong but I am also not saying persecute any and every wrong doing member of a community that is ridiculous and non-helpful turning in your son and daughter because they deal drugs? really? you think that's helpful you push them into an eternal struggle and then they have no one, if not you as a parent and furthermore so what if they sold drugs no one is forcing another person to buy said drug or abuse it, all I'm saying is black self-loathing will not help them succeed in racist america speaking as a male just a man not as a white man just a man.. if my own family wasn't supportive it would motivate me to do more egregious and heinous acts
sorry for the wall of text just wanting to make it less one-sided
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By: little lady on 3/17/2008 7:19PM
I agree our parents all try to give us a better life then what they had.It is up to us to make a choice to do right or do wrong.It's responsibilties. NOt passing the buck. I have Polish family members who came to this country not knowing English-learned it.not knowing how to read & write & no job- did it. He made something of his life so his family would be better off. They left the war with German's burning homes and killing them. NOT once did he feel sorry for himself or hate anyone.It was that strength that gets passed on.I am sick & tired of blacks being a victim, black communities need help,I feel people are holding their own back.Something is owed? what -you owe yourself.I feel black people are strong & moving up and away from negative talk,but yet, some want to keep on preaching the past as they want to enslave you to anger, instead of lifting you up & helping. Perhaps they'd be out of a job.It bothers me, Al Sharpton even when I asked him to help stop gangs help parents he ignored that and went after white cops. More TV and money in that. So all blacks should denounce hate & those who blame white people.
know with in your heart that life is good and life is what we all make it.It is up to our roads we choice to take. they may be bumpy but we still ive in the best country in the world. So we should stick together because their are others out there who would love to kill us all.& we all must stand United & realize. We all have pain have cried,have struggled with money & bleed.Our Mirrors reflect us.& our furture for the next child can be brighter by our struggles today.Peace all God Bless
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By: little lady on 3/17/2008 7:22PM
MC you are a leader
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By: little lady on 3/17/2008 7:24PM
& respect black women calling them names is disrespectfull & must stop.
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By: deen on 3/17/2008 8:12PM
White who come to america and assimilate really believe that there is nothing hindering blacks. What a naive bunch of foregners
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