For others, it was relief that the justice system "worked" for a black man. In any case, there haven't been any notable, organized protests from black men about R. Kelly's behavior on that nasty tape - until now.
Dr. William Jelani Cobb, a Spellman College history professor and author, is circulating a petition many are citing as an overdue rallying cry to African American men; asking them to stand as protectors of the community. The petition is called, simply: Statement of Black Men Against the Exploitation of Black Women. ...
R. Kelly Trial
R&B singer R. Kelly (L) arrives at the Cook County courthouse where jury selection is scheduled to begin for his child pronography trial May 9, 2007 in Chicago, Illinois. Kelly has been accused of videotaping himself having sex with a girl believed to be as young as 13 years old. Kelly faces up to 15 years in prison if convicted.
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Singer R. Kelly, left, arrives with a bodyguard for the first day of jury selection in his child pornography trial at the Cook County Criminal Courthouse in Chicago, Friday, May 9, 2008. Grammy-winning R&B singer R. Kelly faces child pornography charges, prompted by a videotape allegedly showing him having sex with a girl as young as 13.
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Singer R. Kelly, left, arrives with a bodyguard for the first day of jury selection in his child pornography trial at the Cook County Criminal Courthouse in Chicago, Friday, May 9, 2008. Grammy-winning R&B singer R. Kelly faces child pornography charges, prompted by a videotape allegedly showing him having sex with a girl as young as 13.
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Singer R. Kelly, center, arrives with bodyguards for the first day of jury selection in his child pornography trial at the Cook County Criminal Courthouse in Chicago, Friday, May 9, 2008. Kelly faces charges he videotaped himself having sex with an underage girl. After six years of repeated delays, his trial begins.
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Kelly arrives for the first day of jury selection in his child pornography trial at the Cook County Criminal Courthouse in Chicago, Friday, May 9, 2008. Grammy-winning R&B singer R. Kelly faces child pornography charges, prompted by a videotape allegedly showing him having sex with a girl as young as 13.
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But there is no doubt about this: some young Black woman was filmed being degraded and exploited by a much older Black man, some daughter of our community was left unprotected, and somewhere another Black woman is being molested, abused or raped and our callous handling of this case will make it that much more difficult for her to come forward and be believed.
And then Cobb suggests that black men must assert themselves as protectors of black women:
This is about more than R. Kelly's claims to innocence. It is about our survival as a community. Until we believe that our daughters, sisters, mothers, wives and friends are worthy of justice, until we believe that rape, domestic violence and the casual sexism that permeates our culture are absolutely unacceptable, until we recognize that the first priority of any community is the protection of its young, we will remain in this tragic dead-end.
As a black woman, I feel my heart swell when I read this. As I see it, Cobb has thrown down a gauntlet for black men, and some are picking it up. At the time of this post, there are nearly one thousand signatures on the petition.
But then again, maybe I've got it all wrong. What do you think? Is it about time black men stand up and speak out in defense of black women and children? Or do you think R. Kelly was found innocent; so just let it go and move on?


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By: Carmella on 7/23/2008 8:58AM
I have not seen the video tape at question in this trial - so I don't know the ages of either the male or female. The media has described the tape as a man having sex with a young, under-aged girl. The jury, however, did see the tape and they heard mounds of evidence. According to the jury, the prosecutor's case did not stand up to the test of a criminal conviction. Moreover, the jury was not convinced that it was R. Kelly in the video. Given the unusually long period of time that it took the prosecution to bring the case, I am not convinced that the state had a good case against R. Kelly. All I know is that no one who is signing this petition would want to be convicted of a crime this serious on less than convincing evidence.
I do not condone a petition boycotting R. Kelly. But I would support a petition against the degradation of women. I would support a petition that calls for the boycotting of any art that depicts women in a demeaning fashion. Rev. Calvin Butts took on this cause and didn't get as much support as he should have from the African-American community.
I would also support any initiative to increase respect and reverance for African-American women, to increase family stability within the African-American community, and to increase healthy relationships among our brothers and sisters. African-American women do not fit the image of beauty that has been promoted by our European brothers and sisters. In this country, we subscribe to a Eurocentric definition of beauty; it is a definition which few AA sisters meet. Until AA men decide that they love being black themselves, they will never love black women the way the need and deserve to be loved.
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By: Body on 8/20/2008 2:57AM
I am surprised that something is being said so late. A minister by the name of Jamal Bryant preached on this situation and named it "The Curse of R. Kelly. His sermon on CD informed us of a pattern R.Kelly has with young girls starting with Aliyah. Jamal really opened my eyes to this pediphial. He makes nasty songs and then tries to make nice songs like "I beleive I can fly," or "He saved me," in between that filth to throw people off about his character. He is very talented but uses it to defile himself and others. This man is sick to want a girl child in place of a woman. He really needs help and I hope he realizes it and does something about it.
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By: Herb Nichols on 11/07/2008 9:08AM
Most Black Men won't support this petition because we don't stand on principal and don't won't to take any responsibility for our actions. As much as I like so of his music, I can't listen to the "boy" any more. I have a daughter. We must hold ourselves to a higher standard. Barak has raised the bar.
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