
My best friend Greg was shot in the head in 1996, nearly the same time the rapper Tupac Shakur was murdered. Greg was a good man and a good father but he was also a black man, which made his murder seem typical. The media didn't find much interest in my friend's death. His story was covered in the back of the newspaper, in print small enough to be a low-budget classified ad.
The same week, a white mother of three in the same city (Louisville) was murdered on her way to a bank in the suburbs. Her murder was, for several days, the lead story on every TV channel, radio station and newspaper. There was a $25,000 reward issued for information leading to a break in the case. The police held regular press conferences announcing that they wouldn't sleep until the killer was found.
The good people of Kentucky were going to protect their damsel in distress at all cost. The entire city had become a group of Nancy Grace clones, obsessing over every nook and cranny of the case, crying for the woman's orphaned children and holding candlelight vigils. None of this was done for my best friend's daughter, since her daddy's death was just not all that intriguing.
My friend Greg was "only" another dead black man. His daughter, Jasmine, was just another fatherless black girl. In the eyes of the media, her suffering was not as important as that of the little angels from the suburbs who'd tragically lost their mother.
I thought about Greg when reading about the case of Bonnie Sweeten, the Philadelphia woman who claimed she and her daughter were abducted by two black men. Turns out that she wasn't abducted at all: she'd taken a trip to Disney World.
The Bonnie Sweeten debacle reminds us of the case of Charles Stuart in 1990. Stuart, a Boston resident, murdered his pregnant wife and said that a black man was the perpetrator. For weeks, black men were victims of tremendous persecution on the part of local police They were strip searched, taken into custody and humiliated in front of their families. That story was also fabricated.

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Sweeten's sweet little lie makes us ask the following questions:
1) Why is the public so quick to believe it when black men are blamed for violent crimes? Black males are six times more likely to be incarcerated when arrested, even when they commit the same crimes as whites. In the cases of those men who are innocent, one only wonders if the justice system is also swayed by the very same stereotypes that made the public believe that two black men kidnapped Sweeten and her daughter.
"Ever since Susan Smith, it has been fashionable for white women accused of crimes to blame it on black men," says Dr. Christopher Metzler, author of 'The Construction and Re-articulation of Race'. "We hardly live in a post-racial society."
2) Why does the media zoom in on such cases more frequently than when black families are victimized? There are a shocking number of child murders taking place in Chicago right now, but the murders are receiving very little national media attention. If these children were not black, chances are that the media would be all over this epidemic. Does the blonde damsel in distress always get more attention than she deserves?
"Despite her mental illness, Sweeten had a clear understanding of two key components to a national tragedy: distressed white woman and violent black assailants," says Dr. Marc Lamont Hill, a Columbia University professor. "The public's deep interest in rescuing white women in distress stands in sharp contrast to the black women, like Latoya Figueroa from Philadelphia, whose abductions go unnoticed."
3) Perhaps we should not go overboard in our discussion of the racism inherent in this case? One must give law enforcement credit for doing a thorough enough investigation to determine that this woman was lying. Had this been another part of the country, say, the same location as the cases of Jamie and Gladys Scott, justice may not have been served. Although there is much work to do, not every police officer wants to incarcerate all black men.
The bottom line is this: It's clear that Sweeten needs psychiatric help. She is currently under investigation for allegedly stealing $300,000 from her former employer, and she hardly represents the typical white female. But we must become conscious of the fact that America overreacts when someone hurts a white woman and underreacts when the victim happens to be black. To think that this perceptive bias is not related to 400 years of racial conditioning would be silly. Nancy Grace and the rest of us must keep in mind that a black life is just as valuable as a white one, and perpetrators come in all ethnicities.
Michael Vick Update
A security guard wearing a shirt with the word "Support" and a photo of suspended NFL player Michael Vick moves traffic cones in front of Vick's home in Hampton, Va., Thursday, May 21, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and arrived home Thursday morning. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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A caravan of vehicles escorting the van carrying suspended NFL player Michael Vick arrives at his home in Hampton, Va., Thursday, May 21, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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A van carrying suspended NFL player Michael Vick arrives at his home in Hampton, Va., Thursday, May 21, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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Neighbors linger in front of the home of former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick in Hampton, Va., Thursday, May 21, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and is due back at his home in Virginia for home confinement. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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Members of the media stand in front of the home of former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick in Newport News, Va., Wednesday, May 20, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and is due back at his home in Virginia for home confinement. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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Members of the media stand in front of the home of former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick in Newport News, Va., Wednesday, May 20, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and is due back at his home in Virginia for home confinement. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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A private property sign is posted at the home of former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick in Newport News, Va., Wednesday, May 20, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and is due back at his home in Virginia for home confinement. The suspended quarterback served 19 months in prison on the dogfighting conviction that capped one of the most astonishing falls in sports history, one that stole his wealth and popularity. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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The media is camped out at the entrance to the home of former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick in Newport News, Va., Wednesday, May 20, 2009. Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and is due back at his home in Virginia for home confinement. The suspended quarterback served 19 months in prison on dogfighting conviction. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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Nineteen month old London Vick points to an unidentified man, right, as she arrives at the home of her father, former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick, in Newport News, Va., Wednesday, May 20, 2009. Michael Vick was released from prison early Wednesday and is due back at his home in Virginia for home confinement. The suspended quarterback served 19 months in prison on dogfighting conviction. (AP Photo/Steve Helber)
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Former Indianapolis Colts coach Tony Dungy speaks at a workshop for ex-offenders seeking jobs, in Indianapolis on Wednesday, May 13, 2009. Dungy is busier than ever, even though he's no longer coaching the Colts. In the past few weeks, he has met with former Atlanta Falcons quarterback Michael Vick at a federal penitentiary in Leavenworth, Kan., been involved with an education project in St. Louis and attended a Fellowship of Christian Athletes function for flood relief in Cedar Rapids, Iowa. (AP Photo/Michael Conroy)
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Dr Boyce Watkins is a Distinguished Scholar Affiliate at The Barbara Jordan Institute for Policy Research at Texas Southern University. He is also the author of 'What if George Bush were a Black Man?' For more information, please visit www.BoyceWatkins.com. To get Dr. Boyce commentary delivered directly to your email, please click here.


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By: Caroline on 5/30/2009 1:01PM
Rest assured that when her white ass gets to jail, the sisters will kick it for her, unless they put into protective custody, even then they will kick her ass.
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By: Jblknyc on 5/30/2009 11:57PM
Again, this is for Bonnie (not Ms. Unique). It's been almost a day and I'm still shocked by her comment. Talking about,"Have you checked out the jails lately?" Well, Bonnie, have YOU ever thought that the reason why there are so many black men in jail is because someone's LIE put them there? There are so many black men serving time for crimes that they did not commit. And, if this white chick had not been caught in her lie, there would probably be a few more black men, in jail, serving time for something they didn't do. I can't believe you even used this story to bring up what happened to that "poor white man" during the "Rodney King" riots. Did you bring that up as an example of how violent black ppl can be? Did you forget that it was a black person who stopped the attack on that "poor white man"? Since you want to talk about how "violent" black ppl can be, let me talk about how violent white ppl can be. Google George Edenfield. That's a white man whose wife masturbated while watching him and her son torture, rape and sodomize a 6 yr old black boy before finally killing him. Yes, I bet it's hard for you to believe that white ppl did that, right? Well, they did. You want to talk about black ppl being violent? Plz. We all know that white ppl have a history of being violent.
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By: Jblknyc on 5/31/2009 12:20AM
Again, this is for Bonnie (not Ms. Unique). It's been almost a day and I'm still upset by her comment. Talking about, "Have you checked out the jails lately?" Well, Bonnie, have YOU ever thought that the reason why so many black men are in jail is because someone's LIE put them there? There are so many black men serving times for crimes that they did not commit. And, if this white chick had not been caught in her lie, there would probably be a few more black men, in jail, serving time for something that they didn't do. I can't even believe you used this story to bring up what happened to that "poor white man" during the Rodney King riots. Did you bring that up as an example of how violent black ppl can be? Did you forget that it was a black person who stopped the attack on that "poor white man"? (Shaking my head) Since you want to talk about how violent black ppl can be, let's talk about how violent white ppl can be. Google David Edenfield. He's the white dude whose wife masturbated while watching him and her son torture and rape a 6 yr black boy before choking him to death. I bet it's hard for you to believe that it was whtie ppl who did that, right? Well, they did. You want to talk about how violent black ppl can be? Please. We all know that white ppl have a HISTORY of being violent.
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By: Ethel Munson on 5/31/2009 7:06AM
I do not believe that these people are sick and/or racist. I believe that they were desperate and in America - race sells. If they alleged that white people did these henious crimes, no one would believe their story for one minute and would slam their buts in jail in a minute. They throw the element of blacks commiting crime and bingo - law enforcement officials spend little time evaluating their cocomania story and begin a massive hunt to bring the alleged black perpetrator to justice no matter what the cost or the actions involved. Shame on America for its institutionalized racist views!
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By: Cheryl F. on 5/31/2009 7:27AM
BONNIE....Why???? Have you checked out the jails lately? It's the BLACKS that cause the most problems in society. Lets go back to the Rodney King trial....ok lets see....... some poor white man is driving along and a bunch of blacks pull him out of the car and beat the crap out of him...not to mention you don;t see white people LOOTING! Call it racist if you wnat I call it reality!
Wait now, I beleive in giving credit where credit is due. Bonnie has a point here. You've got to admit that Blacks do cause the most crime. Heck Im black and I dont even want to live around them. Lets stick to truth as much as possible, because only the truth will make you free.
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By: Jblknyc on 5/31/2009 12:24PM
Cheryl F, you're not fooling anyone. You know dayum well you are Bonnie under a different screen name. Go somewhere else with that bullshyt. Fool.
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By: Britt on 5/28/2009 11:51AM
That is so crazy but so true. When someone white is missing or killed, it is broadcasted everywhere but you never hear about a black person. I wish the world wasn't like this...
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By: WENDY on 5/31/2009 11:21AM
Well, Mike, it is what it is. I believe this forum is ripe to expose the truth, no matter how uncomfortable people feel about it. To say or compare Asha and me to the likes of Bonnie Sweeten is a back-hand slap to my face, personally. For one, I have never lied on any black men. Two, I have no reason to lie on black men. Three, I don't lie. PERIOD. I've been married to my black husband for 27 years and I respect black men in general, therefore, respect SHOULD be given in return. I find it reprehensible and incredible that you're the second black man to ball-your-fist at me on this topic for speaking what I know to be true. And neither one of you had the balls to point out Sweeten for her lies. Like I said, you won't stand up for yourself, and you attack the black women who do stand up for you and sympathize.
(Wagging my head, completely baffled by this. Well, I know what to do the next time a black man is lied on by a white woman. I'll be as silent as the grave from now on).
I wish you well, Bojames and Mike.
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By: Mary on 5/28/2009 12:33PM
Dear Dr. Watkins,
I am so sorry for these egregious inequities and flagrant injustices all too prevalent in our racist society. It disgusts me--and I am a white woman. I too am outraged by the scapegoating that white people do that have historically ruined innocent lives.
It is also so wrong that the same attention was not given regarding the murder of your friend, and that blatant, racist disregard and devaluation placed is placed on the life of a person/s of color.
My best friend was also murdered. He was gunned down when our country was on red alert on 12/2/01 by 7 bullets---that came from killer cops who wanted to be hailed as post 9/11 heroes. (www.justiceforwoody.net) We, the justice group we formed in the wake of his murder, thought white privilege would come into play as my friend was white, but the blue code of silence was color blind and there was no independent investigation, no grand jury, nothing but a civil suit that his parents eventually settled out of court for a mere pittance just to improve their own ailing health.
We, JFW, partnered with The Malik Organization run by Malik's powerful mother, Emma Jones, after he was murdered by police. She won her civil lawsuit, and was the first black woman in the history of the USA to sue a city for racial profiling and wrongful death.
I lived in DC when it was the nation's murder capital. I'd witnessed murder before but it isn't until your best friend is murdered and you are helpless against the powers that be to bring forth justice that it really hits home.
I am sorry we have in common such horrific losses. As always, I remain an ally to people of color. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to be of service.
Best,
Mary
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By: jackson on 5/28/2009 6:41PM
Bless you, Mary...
I feel for your loss, and I am deeply moved and soothed by your actions and words. Thank you for standing beside us!
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