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Both parents have something seriously wrong. I think Mike is wrong about the penis envy thing he said about the black females who are abusive to their sons. An abusive parent is an abusive parent, that's it. They should both be dealt with the same. Is the father who abuses his daughter guilty of vagina envy, because the child he was abusive to is female? Sounds irrational, doesn't it?

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Okay, Mike. So your premise is that single black women are abusers of their sons because they have penis envy. Is that correct? I know you didn't say that all of them are, but you intimated that most of them are. Let's say that you are correct about the number, could it not be that they abuse because they're stressed from running a household alone, or because of any number of other reasons?

And could the difference in numbers of incarcerated black males in comparison to incarcerated black females be because males work out their frustrations much differently than most women? And by the way, I'm troubled by the fact that this is what you choose to base the validity of your premise on.

I'm also troubled by the fact that your blaming the mothers gives those males in prison a convenient escape from responsibility for their own actions.

But moving on. How do you explain away the fact that most of the sexual abuse of our children is committed by black males? Do you guys have "vagina envy"?

If I misinterpreted anything you said, please let me know.

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There is something seriously wrong with all people who abuse their children, black, white, brown, etc.
This man and the woman both are mentally deficient. To my knowledge neither article stated that these children were sexually abused, so where are you getting this penis envy concept from? Makes no sense to me. Can you explain further?

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It estrogen vs testorerone. It's ying and yang. But in the black community, the women have bought the lie that they, themselves, possess what it takes to raise a boy. You do not ladies, so stop harming your sons by denying your sons a relationship with their bio-fathers. Psychiatrists and pyschologists will tell you when a little girls finds out she has an inny and he has an outty, she gets jealous. Usually, of course, she'll grow out of that. I sometimes feel black women never do. You black women can sell some serious 'woof tickets' to a man and when you succeed at driving him to get physical, you call the authorities. All I'm saying black women, is understand and respect the usefulness of both sexes. Stop listening to lipstick lesbians and their ilk who hate men. Realize those little boys 0 - 12 will grow to become big, ole men. They'll have your back, unless all they can remember is how you used your poison-mouth against them in their formative years and how you kept them from their fathers and how YOU DIDN'T TEACH THEM ANYTHING cause you wouldn't have the slightest clue what a boy needs to be taught. Love you.

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