
We know that women have been historically excluded from the forefront of the struggle for Civil Rights. We also know this is wrong. African American women, with all of the contributions they've made to the advancement of black people, deserve to have a voice in the American conversation on race and every other issue of relevance. Misogyny runs deep in the black community, perhaps deeper than within white America. This has got to change.
I spoke on this issue with Rev. Sharpton yesterday, who gave me a thorough explanation of how the meeting with President Obama went down. He agreed whole-heartedly that women should be included in future dialogues. One challenge with his meeting with President Obama is that the group that had the meeting with the president were the ones who requested the meeting, President Obama was not the one who requested it. This was the natural reason that Dorothy Height, former head of the National Council for Negro Women, was invited to participate, since she was part of the group who asked to meet with Presisdent Obama. It would have been difficult to include others in the meeting, given that there was a blizzard, and they didn't find out about the meeting until the last minute.
While it is commendable that Dorothy Height was invited to be part of the group that met with President Obama, the truth is that we can continue to make progress on this front. There are other outstanding women doing amazing things, like Dr. Julianne Malveaux (President of Bennett College) and Bernice King, the daughter of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Dr. Malveaux is a natural participant in the conversation about black unemployment, given that she has a PhD in Economics from MIT. But I would also argue that her contention with the president might make a dialogue more challenging, since President Obama seems most interested in speaking with African Americans who have not been highly critical of him. On the other hand, Dr. Malveaux's critiques of the president should be respected, not ignored. If Dr. Malveaux would not be a good fit for such a meeting, another black woman should be given a voice.
Even when I engage in black social commentary, I rarely get the chance to hear as many black female voices as the male ones. During the Don Imus "Nappy Headed Hoe" scandal in 2006, there were no prominent black female figures in position to respond to Imus' horrible statement. That needs to change, and all of us need to find ways to be sensitive to the need for including black women in our fight for equality. Without the relentless and courageous support of women, we'd be almost nothing.
Dr. Boyce Watkins is the founder of the Your Black World Coalition. To have Dr. Boyce commentary delivered to your email, please click here. 

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By: shirley on 2/16/2010 8:28AM
Obviously there's been a lot of black women who have been involved, and there's not alot of information that Dorthy was one of them. However, because they've remained no-names, we as women have allowed ourselves another injustice.
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By: Stan on 2/16/2010 10:53AM
I am a black male, living in the mid-west, and I would like to issue a caution to the black community concerning lines of demarcation appearing more and more in the black community. I feel that, once again, our community is being used by majority women to foster their fight for independence and recognition, with little concern for the black families. Why are we not speaking out about the attack on the black family, which would separate the interest of black female from that of black males? I would ask how does the development of policies that address the correction of educational, economic and housing insufficiencies for black women and girls, yet does not address those same needs for black men and boys, help the black family? I remember my mother organizing postal workers in the eighties; she was asked to speak at a meeting held at the University of Chicago for the National Organization of Women. I was very proud that she was being recognized; she was then and is today a brave warrior for our family. We both are older, though the grace of God, and I question what has been the benefit to the black family from the contributions of black females, of that time? Let’s not fall for the subterfuge. We will either live as a village or die individually. Mothering and fathering are not unique to daughters or sons. Let keep it that way.
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By: rbk84 on 2/16/2010 11:52PM
Is Oprah a Black Woman or a Black feminist. I've always wondered if her sentiments towards black issues took a backseat to her feminist leanings. Is her show for feminist or general opionions.
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By: Bob Norman on 2/18/2010 4:02AM
I'm a 71 year old black male who grew up riding the back of the bus in Georgia. I'm really concerned why so call black leaders and black people in general refuse to acknowledge the one overall issue facing young black boys and men today. The number one emeny facing our young black boys and men is not civil rights, white folks, or any color of folks, but instead its ILLERATECY. People seem to get confused between being educated and street smarts. Street smarts will most often get you one of two things, death or jail. Just look around our black neighborhoods. We as black folks have got to stop ignoring the problem and find ways to tackle the problem head-on. Illerate young black boys and men are destroying our neighborhoods and communities. They are to illerate and lazy to work and learn; they litter our streets with drugs; they steal from you, your family, and their family; they take up valuable space in the classrooms and prevent your children from getting an education. Their mind set is such that they will rob, rape, and kill you, your spouse, your sons and daughters without a second thought. They do all these things while most of us black folks will just turn our heads and blame other folks for their problems. I for one can say that we were more united as a black community before the civil rights era of the 1960's then we are today. We as black folks need to determined why we lost that unity and get back to the root of being a united community again where we encourage each other to strive to be the best we can. The civil rights era is over and its up to us to collectively move our communities forward, especially for our young black boys and men. Even if it means that progressive and sensible black folks may have to pick up the gun to fight against our own to ensure our survival in our own communities. Our other choices are to just continue to not give a dam, give up and keep running, just continue to suffer, or just simply lay down and die like a coward. We have to STOP waiting for someone else to come and rescue us from the war within.
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By: sherridina on 2/18/2010 10:59AM
It has always been this way. Back in the day, many men felt that the black men should get theirs first and then we work on rights for black women. Black women who fight for their rights are accused of fostering disunity. Whenever a black woman gets something, many black men sees this as an affront to their manhood. They aren't proud of their sisters for achieving something. Instead of saying good for you sista, they what about me or things are easier for sistas. According to them, we are taking jobs or seats in college that should belong to black males.
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By: Stan on 3/01/2010 4:13PM
Your words cut to my very soul. I have six young men and two young women that God has blessed me to steward though this world. Though they are not from the same women, they have been raised to see themselves as brothers and sisters; the thought of envisioning a separtion of our family by children of this mother or by male and female isn't conceivable.
When did we decide to divide brothers and sisters into seperate family units, what matter of persuasion has convinced Americans to fight, within family units, for the scrapes issued out by the rulers of this world. Surely, if He has provided for the birds in the fields, what less would He provide for those He calls his own. Forgiveness is therapeutic, and can reverse any wrong that we preceive has been done; know that it was allowed to perfect you to make you stronger. You and I are family. Your success is the success of the tribe; no women is an island. I pray the redeeming power of Jesus for you and your family.
We are a nation.
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By: Michael Lofton on 2/18/2010 5:29PM
Civil Rights for Women in general vs. Constitutional Protections for Law Abiding U.S. born Black men, women, and/or their siblings are not the same banana.....
......the lack of guaranteed Constitutional Protections, for Law Abiding U.S. born Black men, women, and/or their siblings, being much more important than any "liberal Womens Rights Movement" the primary cause of the demise of the and much less than second class citizen status of Black men, women, and/or their siblings, while our own elected Black leaders remain silent and/or conspire to further oppress the Black community at large!
http://deadwiler.blogtownhall.com/2010/02/05/president_obama_has_no_regard_for_his_sworn_duty_and_oath_to_respect_and_honor_the_us_constitution!.thtml
......and believe it or not, with good reason there are U.S. born Black people who know for a fact that President Barack Obama, Obama Administration, and/or the Democratic Party are not the vanguard for the working class as claimed, namely because these individuals have no regard for the Constitutional rights of all U.S. citizens, U.S. born Black men, women, and/or their siblings being inclusive.
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By: Michael Lofton on 2/18/2010 6:00PM
"The number one enemy facing our young black boys and men is not civil rights, white folks, or any color of folks, but instead its Illiteracy"
......Illiteracy is an across the board problem in most any Black community. Illiteracy is the enemy of not only young black boys, Black men, but also applies to far too many in the Black community, be it from those in the trenches all the way to the "White House", in President Obama.....
http://www.rushlimbaugh.com/home/daily/site_021710/content/01125107.guest.html
.......good oratory skills and a Harvard Degree does not mean that you are not functional illiterate.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Functional_illiteracy
.....because illiteracy, blatant incompetence, also includes many of our own functionally illiterate.......
http://www.ireport.com/docs/DOC-265276
......functional illiterate individuals who have attended school or hold doctorate university degrees.....
......but whose actions are as bad or if not worse than anyone deemed illiterate....
The number one problem is a failing Black middleclass and blatantly incompetent self serving elitist treasonous elected Black leadership, which has contributed to the demise of young black boys, black men, all of which contribute to the demise of the present and future posterity of the Black community.
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By: sherridina on 3/01/2010 4:45PM
Stan, what is your point? Why can't we proud of each other? Why can't some Black men acknowledge that this struggle involves both us? We were both enslaved, lynched, subject to Jim Crow, and still live in poverty together. Why does a Black women's success equal your oppression?
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