
Tye Nero's career plan was simple: become a professional basketball player.
"I was just interested in playing ball. I didn't care about grades," said Nero (pictured above, far left), a 12-year-old 7th grader at Tanana Middle School in Fairbanks, Alaska.
But then he heard about the Black Role Model Initiative. The program consisted of black men coming to his school twice a month to mentor African-American boys.
Nero said the program piqued his interest, because he was interested in learning more about African-American history.
He got that and a lot more.
At one of the meetings, Nero was introduced to former NBA players and coaches. He learned how important an education was regardless of your career plans, and he learned that he had more options for earning money than playing in the NBA.
"I realized basketball is not the only thing I can do. I can make good grades. I realized you need good grades to play basketball," Nero told Aol Black Voices. "My grades are better now. The mentors are really cool. They didn't say don't try to do sports. They said go for your dream but make sure you keep your options open."
That's the response that Bernard Gatewood, a Fairbanks council member and superintendent of the Fairbanks Youth Facility, and Bob Sawyer, a retired Army sergeant major, were hoping for when they spearheaded the launch of the group in 2007. Both were speakers on a panel at an annual leadership summit, when the topic of the achievement gap among black males came up.
The graduation rate for African Americans in Fairbanks is below 70 percent; some believe it is 50 percent or less for African-American boys. Thirty-six percent of eighth grade African-American students in Fairbanks were below basic proficiency in reading on the National Assessment of Educational Progress test. About 6.4 percent of students in the district identify as African American.
Fairbanks has children coming from all over the country, because their parents are stationed at the nearby Eielson Air Force Base or Fort Wainwright army base.
"It's the same issue black males are facing across the country. You bring with you who you are and your environment," said Joe Hayes, a former state legislator, executive director of the University of Alaska Fairbanks Alumni Association and president of the Black Role Model Initiative. "A lot of kids are from single parent households. Their parents are deployed and the deployment is adding a level of stress. Some kids are worried about whether Mom or Dad will make it home."
Gatewood and Sawyer gathered a group of black men together with the goal of finding a way to get black men in the community involved in the lives of black boys.
"We sat down and said, 'What can we do to close the gap?' We believed we had to start somewhere," said Gatewood.
Hayes says the mood was more blunt: "It was put up or shut up."
These men ranged from their early 20s to their late 70s and from all walks of life; you had professionals and construction workers trying to put together a plan.
"We asked how could we be role models," said Bill Bailey, 33, director of public relations for the Fairbanks North Star Borough School District.

"There are so many negative role models," said Gatewood. "Everyone wants to be a gangsta, whatever that means. They aren't exposed to the businessman or the sanitation worker who gets up every day and makes an honest and decent living."
Now, twice a month, men from the community meet with boys from Tanana Middle School. The sessions take the form of show-and-tell or question-and-answer periods.
Nello Cooper, 54, a juvenile probation officer, is a big game hunter. He's taken several trips to Africa. He brought in some of his trophies and the questions began to fly.
"Most of the children did not know anyone who had been to Africa. I wanted to teach them about discovery and other countries. I want them to know there is someplace larger than this and learn why it's so important to expand your mind and open it to new ideas," said Cooper.Hayes, who was only the sixth black legislator and second from Fairbanks elected to the Alaska legislature, talked about how laws were made. (Pictured at right, Jamal Brown)
"You just see their eyes light up," said Hayes.
Recently, Kyle Bailey (pictured below), 28, Bill Bailey's brother, came to speak to the mentoring class. He is from Fairbanks and was a star basketball player there before he won a full–basketball scholarship to Santa Clara University.
He signed a contract with the NBA's San Antonio Spurs in 2005 and has been playing in Germany for the last four years. Bailey helped his team to a championship one year and was voted one of the Top-10 players in the league this past season.
Bailey talked to the boys about the importance of education and having passion and a defined purpose.
Along with his jerseys from Santa Clara University and the Spurs, Bailey brought in his degree from Santa Clara, where he majored in philosophy and minored in law.
"It's a simple cost-benefit analysis. Getting your degree will pay for 35 plus years. Basketball, even a good pro career, is 10 years. It's pretty obvious which pays off," said Bailey. "One of the most important things for minorities, is to get away from that rap music and pop culture thinking of instant gratification."
The kids wanted to know how good he was in German.
"I believe you guys can do whatever you put your minds to," he told them in German.
Bailey still has his eyes on the NBA. He plans to play for a few more years and then use his earnings from basketball to buy a home and pay for law school. Bailey said he hoped the boys learned that it is still possible to pursue athletic dreams but also have other goals and plans.
"I was focused on making the NBA, but at the same time I was getting a degree and connecting with people who are now real estate investors and vice presidents of corporations in Silicon Valley," said Bailey. "I've never been afraid of life after basketball, because I've learned how to focus and do what needs to be done no matter what arena I'm in."
The hope is for these conversations and interactions to turn into currency. The boys see the mentors outside the classroom and feel more comfortable talking to older men. They stop and talk about how they are doing. The plan is for that familiarity to evolve to the stage where the men can intervene in the children's lives, where kids can talk to their mentors if they are having problems at home or feeling the crush of peer pressure.
"Just seeing these young boys around town at community events, they say, 'Hey, Mr. Bailey.' There is face recognition, and they can see the way I carry myself. There's a relationship and that's the foundation. If I ever see that young man in a situation, he will listen to my advice because he's seen me walk the talk," said Bill Bailey.
Another aspect of the program is turning the kids on to different career options. Gatewood said he was amazed at how many kids are interested in being professional athletes. "We don't want to kill that dream. You might make it, but you still need to do well in school. If you don't make it, what's your plan?" Greenwood said. To that end, the coach at the University of Alaska at Fairbanks, a former professional player, has been in to talk with the kids about how difficult it is to have a professional career. He also spoke about the opportunities a free education provided by athletics can bring. They've had men in who were all state athletes who received college scholarships but did not make it to the NBA or the NFL.
"We expose them to different options and show them people who are doing well. We had one guy in who was all conference but now he's a television reporter," said Gatewood. (Pictured below from left to right are Nello Cooper, Jamal Brown, and Bernard Gatewood, officers for the Black Role Model Initiative.)
Black Role Model Initiative in Fairbanks, Alaska, Tyreke Jennis, 13, an eighth-grader, said the program has opened up new possibilities for him. "I like hearing people say you can do anything," said Jennis. "I think it's a great opportunity to learn about setting goals and accomplishing them."
In addition to the twice monthly mentoring, the group used its $55-annual membership fee to send two boys to the University of Alaska at Fairbanks' summer research academy.
There hadn't been a black boy from Fairbanks in the program for years. There are plans to expand in to other schools and send kids to more conferences and summer programs simply for the exposure. As the program began to grow, something interesting began to happen. Native Alaskan, Caucasian and Hispanic children began showing up at the group.
Pizza is usually served but his non-black classmates weren't coming just for a free slice of pepperoni, said Nero. "Some people got kicked out because they just wanted pizza, but some white kids here wanted to know more about black history and have role models," said Nero. Black Role Model Initiative in Fairbanks, Alaska, Bailey said he thinks non-black students noticed a change in their friends.
"I think others saw the confidence that the African-American boys were radiating. I'm not surprised white kids and native kids see something different in them. It's not a color thing," said Bailey. "They have some of the same struggles as black kids," Gatewood said.
One of the long-term goals is to have more mentors of all colors and races involved in the program. There are already white members in the group. The Black Role Model Initiative just applied for non-profit status, said Hayes. The goal is to take the program district-wide. "All male students need help. The irony is we looked at our population and said let's focus on them, but a lot of males are looking for role models and gravitate to people who are positive," said Hayes.
"The message transcends race, ethnicity and socioeconomic conditions. It has opened up a better dialogue and is now affecting race relations. That's something we did not expect." Nero said he's now thinking about a career as a dancer. He studies ballet and sees the possibilities there. He hasn't given up his love for basketball but is convinced his future holds more. "If I make it as professional basketball player or dancer I will look at my wall and still have a degree from my college," he said. Besides, he has people who look up to him now. "I'm a role model for some people. I have younger cousins and people in the school that look to me as an example," said Nero. "I hear from other people they want to be like me now."


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By: Lynda Sather on 4/30/2010 12:23AM
Thanks for the wonderful article! So many of our young boys--whatever their ethnicity--are struggling to find their way in the world and I suspect life can be particularly difficult for many young black men. I so appreciate these adult men taking time from their busy lives to share their insights and experience with the younger generation. Their voices are truly needed and appreciated--and are making a difference!
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By: Willie A on 5/02/2010 10:17AM
@Lynda Sather I disagree with the statement about young men strufgling to find their way despite ethnicity. FAR MORE BLACK MALES ARE FACING MORE LIFE THREATENING ISSUES THAN OTHER EHTNIC GROUPS, ESPECIALLY WHITES. So you might want to rethink that part of your statement.
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By: Chris on 4/29/2010 1:59PM
That's a wonderful eye opener for children to see that there is more to life than being a gangster and with all the hardwork and struggling our ancestors did for us to make our life better, we as a people need to show our young men and women that a little hard work is all we need to do to give back to our community by being successful and remembering to pay it back by offering someone in need a helping hand up instead of trying to keep them down.....
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By: michele on 4/29/2010 2:23PM
there is no direction for these kids..
FRIENDLY FINANCE IS A MODIFICATION AND REFINANCE CO. AND IS A TOTAL SHAM... I WAS RIPED OFF FOR 3,000. BEWARE!
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By: May on 4/29/2010 8:02PM
I love this article. Step up men and take your rightful place. Show these young men what being a man is truly about. I pray that God continues to bless the efforts.
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By: K. Hill Orlando, FL on 4/29/2010 9:21PM
Awesome!
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By: M. Alexander on 5/02/2010 10:21AM
Black men for far too long have been fathering kids then abandoning them and that has to stop ! It's one thing to make a child but it's a whole other ball game to stay active and positive in that child's life !
Like the old saying goes, any idiot can father a child but it takes a man to help raise that child !
WE have far too many babies daddies and babies momma's and not enough husbands and wives and mothers and fathers in our communities !
Step up and be a parent to the children you bring into the world !
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By: Willie A on 5/02/2010 10:50AM
WAY TO GO BLACK MEN! If we could get more like you, especially those in the entertainment business to step up and speak out against this this thuggish HIP-HOP WAY OF LIFE and all many other thing that impact US AND ENCOURAGE THROUGH ACTIONS ON WHAT IT IS TO BE A BLACK MAN, then we would have less black men in prison, on drugs and so on. Then we would more BLACK FAMILIES that strong and UNITED. BLACK WOMEN WOULD HAVE A BLACK MAN TO MARRY! By having all these things we would strengthen us as A PEOPLE AND ETHNIC GROUP.
I try and encourage young BLACK MEN mostly to understand who they are and to be smart about their actions as related life and all the pitfalls that their surroundings as well as a lot of this STUPID MUSIC offers and teaches them. I also try and tell them about their History as it relates to the experiences of blacks in the past as connected their experiences TODAY AS AFRICAN AMERICANS. There are two things that we as AFRICAN AMERICANS must get back to doing and that's PRACTICING CHRISTIAN TEACHING AND KOWNING OUR HISTORY. With the black man back in the HOME SERVING AS THE HEAD and ROLE MODEL, it will show, encourage, strengthen and uplift our young men to be MEN. I mean, give them something to look forward to rather than just allowing them to settle for the NEGATIVE ASPECTS OF BLACK CULTURE as they have come to beleive as what it means to be a BLACK MAN. Show them how to treat a BLACK WOMAN AND how to be industrious and intelligent about making the correct decisions in life. Encourage them to get ALL THE EDUCATION IN LIFE OR LEARN A TRADE IF THEY DON'T GO TO COLLEGE AND BE ECONOMICALLY SELF SUFFICIENT IN THAT TRADE. I. E. OWN THEIR OWN BUSINESS. Take our children (YOUNG BLACK MEN AND SOME BLACK WOMEN) back from the NEGATIVE HIP HOP AND ALL the bull that is out there. Then and only then will we see a change in how WE AS A PEOPLE WILL GROW IN UNITY AND PROSPERITY AS AFRICAN AMERICANS.
So in closing, PLEASE YOUNG BLACK MEN, step up and get back to taking CARE OF YOURSELVES, WOMEN AND FAMILIES. I 1 MILLION PERCENT appluad the EFFORTS OF THESE MEN, whether in Alaska or on top of a mountain somewhere. Stand up and be LEADERS FOR OUR YOUNG MEN, BECASUE THEY NEED US! IT IS OUR RESPONSIBILITY!
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By: Michael on 5/02/2010 9:55PM
Willie, thanks for dropping that knowledge on this blog. That was well said. That is what I am talking about. That is the key and the answer. I am a Boy Scout Commissioner and all kids needs is a mentor to guide them in the right direction. The thuggish mentallity is destroying the black community.
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By: Michael on 5/02/2010 1:52PM
What does America have to offer an African American youth. We are a capitalistic society meaning that anyone can be born poor and become rich. We have the Bill of Rights: The right to vote, Freedom of Speech, Freedom of Religion, and Right to Assembly Together and The Right to bear Arms. Because of taxation we get 12 years of public education. We have the opportunity to go to college or vocational school. Grants and students loans are available to pay for college or vocational school is your parents don’t have the money. You can go in the military and learn a skill, go to college, and get the GI Bill to go to college after your service. The problems are my race is not taking advantage of America.
In the promise land when the Hebrews came out of the wilderness. There was a land of milk and honey. Grapes were so big it took two men to carry them the Bible says. But they had to milk the cow and feed the cows. They had to gather the honey and gather the grapes. It was still work involved.
A ball player still works. A rapper sill works.
Education, hard work, and family values is the key to success.
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