I am not sure if the "White Privilege Boot Camp" is real or not, but I am also not sure if I mind the idea. This is not to say that it should be as harsh as the boot camp the brother puts the white woman through in the below video, but the truth is that many of us in America are ignorant about racial history, primarily because our country wants to forget it. We don't mention many of the horrors and evils of slavery, because we would rather presume that a holocaust can only occur in another country.
I watched the video below with as much shock as the woman who was being lectured by the brother with the microphone. The brother is loud, and he dominates the woman, leading most of us to feel some degree of empathy toward her. She even cries toward the end, so the tendency is to argue that perhaps he was too harsh. Yes, he was too harsh, and I would not have approached the issue in the same way. But........
When it comes to how we process our racial history in America, there is the question of truth vs. lies. Was the woman crying because she was confronted with the truth about white privilege? Are most white Americans even aware of the benefits of being white? If that is or is not the case, then who should be held accountable for the clear and lasting damage of slavery? While some expect us to presume that history remains disconnected from the present, the truth is that they are inextricably linked. You can't have the present without the past, since actions of the past create the world that lies all around us. Here are some quick examples:
Elena Kagan, the most recent Supreme Court nominee, can hire 29 people, with none of them being black, and no one blinks an eye. Why? Because there is a privilege to whiteness, which implies that black people should be happy with whatever we can get. She'd never consider allowing white men or women to be excluded in an equally egregious way.
The Supreme Court has had over 111 justices, and not a single black woman has had a chance to serve on the court. That's not the result of black women being inferior to anyone else. It's the result of white privilege, sexism and the racially divisive constructs on which our nation has been built.
The average black family wealth level is roughly 1/10 that of white Americans. That didn't happen because black people decided that we don't like money. It happened because for hundreds of years, slavery and Jim Crow eliminated our ability to pass wealth on to our children. This wealth imbalance wasn't created overnight.
Those are the facts, folks, whether we like them or not. Some respond to these realities with anger. Some people forgive and forget. Some people live in denial. My personal opinion, though, is that we are going to have to deal with white privilege and the impact of slavery if our country is going to ever move forward. At the very least, we should honestly educate one another on the past. The video is below if you'd like to see it. Again, I can't condone the aggressive approach, but it is certainly thought-provoking.
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By: darrell eason on 5/14/2010 12:00AM
I agree with you Dr. Boyce that it is very thought provoking. I also concur that it could have been handled in a more positive way. Although the brother spoke the truth, real love is kind, patience, long suffering, and always has the other person's interest at heart. After all the aim is to enlighten, not crush the spirit. Always like your posts, very intelligent and well thought out. And you say, correctly so, that we don't have enough of a dialogue about race in this country. It is very sad indeed.
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By: RH on 5/14/2010 3:45PM
The brother handled it correctly,we have been patient and kind for over 400 years and look what it has gotten us, piecemill freedom, crumbs from the table. To use diplomacy for the sake of
telling the unbridled harsh truth loses its effectivness with whites, they will only turn around and tell you to get over it. This womans intentions was to put the brother on the spot.
Instead he gave her a black history lesson, she
will never forget. Those same tears, have hung
brothers,sent them to jail for life,for crimes
of rape, they didn't do. Ask them that can still
speak,if he was to hard on this white woman. She
and other whites need to come out of their fanatsy
land,only then will we have some real dialogue on
the black holocaust in america and the reparations
that need to be given.
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By: Mookm988 on 5/17/2010 6:45AM
Sometimes you have to crush the spirit in order for the truth to come out. Would you have rather he sugar coated it ? Sugar coating is the problem with America, not wanting to make a person feel bad about the truth, which is another way of excusing a person for the wrong they have done. I am a person that believes that the real truth hurts but it makes you a better person.
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By: Justifyed on 5/17/2010 9:21AM
The Truth always hurts, if you can't say Amen, say "OUCH"
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By: Mimi on 5/17/2010 11:12PM
DR. WATKINS,
YOU WROTE A VERY INTERESTING ARTICLE. I HAVE ONE QUESTION FOR YOU...WHAT DOES THAT HIDEOUS SMILING JACKAZZ MICHELLE THOMAS HAVE TO DO WITH THIS ARTICLE? WHY IS HER PICTURE PLASTERED ON EVERYTHING ON BLACK VOICES? MITRICE RICARDSON IS MISSING AND MOST LIKELY THE POLICE ARE RESPONSIBLE. IS IT POSSIBLE TO POST MITRICE RICARDSON PICTURE DAILY OR SOME OTHER NEWSWORTHY BLACK PERSON AS OPPOSED TO THIS SMILING JACKASS MICHELLE THOMAS?
WHY IS HER PICTURE POSTED ON EVERY STORY ON BLACK VOICES?
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By: No1'sname on 5/19/2010 6:10PM
In a positive way so how should the brother have handled it. Was slavery done in a positive way. Is putting drugs in our neighborhoods done in a positive way, Is the judicial system that is only geared for blacks done in a positive way. Is racism done in a positive way so how just tell me should have been done in a positive way Oh I guess he should have sugar-coated what he was saying right! To me it was the truth & you can't get any more positive than that!
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By: Jessica on 5/21/2010 8:50AM
@darrell..
I beg to differ with you...This guy took the right approach to letting the woman know about TRUE HISTORY...Thats how boot camp is...It let her see true reality how it really was and IS...Whoever the brother is GOOD JOB...Yet the black men will sleep with a white woman befor he will sleep with a black one so how oxymoranic is that?! SMDH!!!
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By: sandy on 5/14/2010 1:00AM
Just the facts jack! Speak truth to power.
Amen Dr. Boyce
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By: Andrew Thompson on 5/17/2010 8:01AM
True this is all true "but" the Whites who needs to hear this won't because you can't get them in this type of forum
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By: James Gadson on 5/14/2010 1:03AM
He spoke the truth to her but she, like all others in denial, be they white, yellow, brown, or black, does not see the reality of his words and instead of crying out in apology all she/they can do is deny any culpability or shout that things aren't as they are etc.
It is a wonder she didn't strike and run like most whites would do or attempt to strike out physically at him like the police will most likely do!
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