
Many of you may already know about the "interesting" comments made by rapper Slim Thug and his frustration about the lack of loyalty among black women. His comments were met with resistance by myself and Dr. Marc Lamont Hill from Columbia University, who gave him the stable advice to keep his mouth shut. I say that he needs to be quiet, not because he's wrong but because this is a battle he can't win and still sell records. Getting every black woman in America to hate you is simply not good for business. Even Talib Kweli, a fellow hip-hop artist, had something to say about Slim Thug's remarks.
On his Twitter page, Slim Thug went out of his way to try to protect his image in the face of all the backlash, particularly the open letter he received from Hill:
First for the record I did NOT write that blog I was being interviewed on the phone by Vibe so they didn't put all I said In the blog. 2nd we started out doing a interview about a skit I did on comedy central so I was in a joking mood.
They not putting my whole blog on these other sites. The reason I said Black women have to lower their standards is because while Black successful woman or a majority Black successful men are a minority so if u want a Black successful man u have to work harder to find one and keep one. I'm not a professor, I'm a rapper so the women I meet and the women u meet are different.
He also argues that he actually favors black women, in contrast to public opinion since his unfortunate remarks.
It's my blog so I gave ya'll my story of my life and the women I meet. I NEVER been in a relationship with a white woman, If u go back and read my blog, [it says] my BROTHER dates a white woman and teases me about the drama I go thru with my Black women. So [if that is what I said, then] how did I put white women over Black women? I said this is what he jokes with me and says.
What we have here, my friends, is standard class warfare. Slim Thug is correct that as a rapper, he has a different lifestyle and meets different women than, say, Hill might meet as a professor. What makes this class warfare fascinating, however, is that Hill and Slim both represent the diversity, yet commonality, which exists among all black men. I'm reminded of an outstanding documentary made by Byron Hurt called 'Curtis & Barack,' in which he explains how much the rapper 50 Cent has in common with Barack Obama. I loved the concept of the documentary, because I completely agreed with Hurt's assessment that many successful human beings possess similar traits. Barack Obama is a brilliant leader who achieved the impossible, and the same can be said about 50 Cent -- the man who grew up in a home full of drug users and dealers and still became one of the richest celebrities on earth.
When I think about Marc Lamont Hill and Slim Thug, two men I respect, I see two brothers who've achieved very different styles of success using a common brand of hustle that ambitious black men tend to possess. I love what Hill brings to the dialogue, because he reminds us that the same ambition it takes to become a rapper or basketball player can be used to become a professor, doctor or lawyer. In spite of what some might suspect, I bet that Marc and Slim listen to the same music, play basketball on similar courts and admire the same women. Seeing them come together to debate the important topic of black relationships is actually quite informative and reflects the need to understand the growing diversity of successful black men. Also, we have to remember that not every hip-hop artist has issues with black women. There are many artists who adore black women, like the rapper Vigalantee out of Kansas City, who actually wrote a song dedicated to them.
All the while, I reiterate to Slim Thug that it's time to kill this conversation. If I were his manager, I'd tell him to write a song right now called 'An Ode to Black Women' and give money to some kind of charity for little girls. This is not a fight he's going to win, and he'd be better off leaving this conversation to scholars who aren't doing this just to make money.
Dr. Boyce Watkins is the founder of the Your Black World Coalition and the author of the new book 'Black American Money.' To have Dr. Boyce's commentary delivered to your e-mail, please click here. 

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By: theopolus20 on 6/14/2010 1:24PM
Bring the heat on,you know Slim stay cool Thug lit the match that has ignited a flame that was already smoldering in the bosoms of black women.We can only hope that,that flame become a raging inferno.Harriet T.was the first known black who utilized the smoldering flame,that became a inferno,that provided the fuel,that fueled her passion to settle for nothing less than freedom.What makes the black man motives suspicious is the fact when men of our race appear to become financially comfortable they choose a white woman.Do such a choice in any way affirm who he is,does it build him up emotionally,does it make him feel at the top of his game.I believe that some men of our race,are running from the real or illusionary assumption,that he will never measure up to the black woman's standards of what a black man should be.Is the black woman's standards to high,hell no,is it higher than the white woman's hell yes.And the most telling concept attached to that is this it have to be if we are to survive and be enabled to elevate our thinking beyond the societal,constrains that shackles our minds with the chains of complacency.Now why would some black men feel that they don't measure,up to the black woman's standards,but they choose a white woman when appear to measure up to their financially fueled ego.There it is ego,there is a big difference between ego and character.You see ego,is like a friend you believe have your back,But the essence that's defines you,that affirms,you,that sustains you,is centered around the contents of your character.What we should do,is ask ourselves what type of materials does it take to build your ego,and what type of materials the it take to build character.You see ego is like a friend that is in disguise,that has mastered becoming you to such an extent,that it appears at if no one can tell the difference.Just like a person that need to be in the company of other men who are their friends they lay down with their ego,get up with their ego,have verbal as well as non verbal conversations with their ego.But ego is like sand,it cannot stand indefinitely,the elements rages against sand like a hereditary enemy.Exposure is like the elements that attacks a sand castle.That is the one of the main reasons why some successful men of our Race run to the white woman.You see,it's not really,the black man that is running from the black woman,it his ego that running from the black woman.Now be real,if you was on point of being beat to death you would run to.So like a man who have lost himself or who wanted to believe was himself,he goes to another woman of another race,that he hope his old friend MYTH has introduced him too.So with MYTH as his mentor he strive to convince himself that it was the black woman and her higher than high standard that he can live with.Well,black look from this standpoint,have you ever been impregnated,and abandoned,raped,suffering hunger in order for the children to be fed,accepting abuse from those of your own race who promised to commit and didn't.That why there is a big difference between character and ego,character provides fortification that the elements that make up the firestorm that is raging in this reignited gender war between black men and black woman.Our women are tired of fighting with the inflated egos that are living and feeding off of her.Now she might barely be able to tolerate it,your ego,if it was living off of you,but your ego is living off of her.Your black woman want you black man,not your ego,but you.Your Mothers wouldn't have suffered so much,your Grandmothers wouldn't have suffered so much,those that came before them wouldn't have suffered so much.The black see the contents in you that are the building blocks that will contribute to her seeing the man that your ego is trying to kill.She lacks the knowledge to help you so out of anger she attacks her enemy that happen to be your ego.You hate it when you believe she give cause to think,there someone else,but you want her to be a prostitute,that sleeps with two,your ego and your enslaved version of yourself that you avoid at the risk of going insane.The way the black woman look at it is this her standards or no higher than they should be or no lower than they should be.Seem to me the black is become aware that she don't have to become a slave to your ego,or yourself enslaved version of yourself.P.S.Slim stay cool is looking for his missing in action ego,anybody that assist him in finding should be charged with obstruction of justice.
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By: wmfamu on 6/14/2010 8:13PM
Black women you really need to take advantage of our option to date outside of your race.
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By: quitehonestly on 6/15/2010 2:04AM
NO NO .... LET HER GO SMITT DOGG .... THIS HAS THE POTENTIAL TO BE VERY INTERESTING .... THEY'LL BREAK ALL THOSE RACES DOWN ... THEN MAYBE WE CAN REBUILD WITH WHAT REASONABLE WOMEN ARE LEFT ... THIS COULD BE A BLESSING ... GO RIGHT AHEAD DEAR ... I WONT WISH YOU LUCK ... YOU DONT NEED IT ... ALL THOSE MEN DO ... BECAUSE THEY'RE GONNA END UP IN PRISON ONCE THEY GET ALOAD OF THAT MOUTH ,AN THAT ATTITUDE ..... WOOO ,I CAN WAIT TO READ ABOUT YOU CHOPPED UP IN A SUITCASE BECAUSE THOSE MEN DONT PLAY THAT 5H1T @ ALL ..... tisk ... PLEASE .....(ridiculous)
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By: quitehonestly on 6/15/2010 11:44PM
YEAHHH SMITT DOGG THE SITUATION IS PRETTY GRIMM ... EVEN FOR GRIMM STANDARDS ... TWIN MARTIN LUTHER KING JR'S COULDN'T FIX THIS MESS .
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By: DorothyJones47 on 6/15/2010 9:07PM
Why should black women have to lower their standards.
Everyone have certain standardds. Why don't you Slim Thug encourage Black boys who will become men to increase their standards by staying in school , getting an education, working & developing into MEN. Start at your concerts. Tell the young boys how important it is to get & education & to be smart & respectful of themselves & females.But after that you can't sing songs that disrespect women. Why don't you let them know how you treat women. Do you have a mother, daughter, sister, or female relatives. Do you disrespect them? I have male relatives, I don't disrespect them. I'm a woman, what shouldn't a man do. Now if white women or other races of women are so easy to get along with, why did OJ have to kill Nicole, & the the white woman that killed the black football player by running over him with truck, & I could go on about white women & black men that have killed their other race mate.
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By: michinyuja on 6/19/2010 1:27AM
God has truly blessed us with your gift, Dr. Boyce. You turn every hard lesson and every conflict into something we can all learn from, and act upon.
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By: claudia on 6/20/2010 7:36PM
To Slim Thug, I found your words about black women very offensive to me. You represent one of those black brothers who always want to make an excuse of why they like being with white women. You are no different then Tiger Woods who thinks that black women are below him and referred women with blonde hair and blue eyes to be the most beautiful. Who are you to make a comment in which you voices your opinion about what black women needs to do. No, you need to step up to the plate and take care of your black woman and stop thinking that we all are nothing but black maids. I have friends that are black and white and you cant tell me that white women likes being in the kitchen all the time and it's a lie when you say they not after your money because the majority does wants security and expects even more from you then the average black woman. I cant blame the white women for still feeling that they are superior over the black women because of ignorant comments made by men like you who puts his own race of women down every opportunity he has.
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By: claudia on 6/20/2010 8:16PM
I'm setting the record correctly following the comment that Slim Thug made. Black women are notorious and has been known to stand by and take care of their men for centuries. We have black women right now who has put their own career behind them just for their black man to succeed. We as black women dont have to step up to the plate, we have prepared the whole plate for years. Now its really time for ignorant black men like yourself to stop making excuses against us all because you didnt succeed mentally with a black woman.
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By: Funtastic on 9/28/2010 9:28PM
I applaud him for speaking his mind. He is not like politicians who choose their words based on getting votes. Slim Thug has integrity and to tell him to shut up to avoid a dip in record sales is misguided and shallow.
This tells me that you lack in integrity since you will avoid speaking your mind if it will hurt your pocket book. You need to check yourself, scholar!
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