
Before he heads off to college, Orayne Williams should go out on a national tour focused on speaking to children in schools across America. His message would be a simple one: success is possible despite tremendous odds and adversity.
Williams,18, is the perfect spokesman because he's headed to college next year despite having lived in a shelter for the past several months after experiencing family difficulties. He's set to graduate from Bedford Academy this month with an A average and has passed three Advanced Placement exams.
Williams will attend Sullivan County Community College in upstate New York this fall after receiving $15,000 in grants and scholarships. "When I tell people I'm homeless, they're surprised," Williams told the New York Daily News. "Most of the kids at my school still don't know."
Williams was born outside Kingston, Jamaica. Life there was rougher than what he has experienced in the States. There was no water or electricity and often no food. In an effort to escape such debilitating poverty, Williams' mother sent him to live with relatives in Florida but that too turned out not to be an ideal situation.
Williams says the relative he went to live with sold drugs for a living and also abused him. He says school was the only thing that kept him going in those days. "It was like my savior," Williams said. "The only thing I had."Finally, Williams joined his mother and infant half sister in Brooklyn in 2007. That situation too soon turned sour. Williams says that he and his family were homeless, moving from motel to shelter and often sharing the same bed. The tension made the relationship between himself and his mother a terrible one. "It was impossible to focus on school," Williams said. "My mom and I fought like crazy."
Finally, Williams' mother kicked him out, he says. That's when a social worker placed him at a shelter in Brooklyn. He gets up at 5:30 a.m. every morning to get to school on time. The shelter where he lives sends him off with a brown bag lunch.
It was Williams' determination and desire to learn that encouraged others to help him along his journey. Wayne Harris, who works in the Department of Education's Office for Students in Temporary Housing helped Williams apply for college and navigate the maze of getting financial aid. Harris' office was one of the places where Williams was able to use the computers and the phones.
"He touches your heart," said Cluny Lavache, assistant principal at Bedford Academy. "He has a lot of people looking out for him."
This is a great story for so many reasons. The way Williams turned to school, learning and the pursuit of a higher education when his life got rough rather than drugs or crime is such a positive example for young black men.
Too often I hear young black men say 'I gotta do what I gotta do' to explain their illicit activities. Williams is the better example of doing what you have to do because he is doing what it takes to eventually make life better for himself and his family.
It's going to take time to reach his goal but the path Williams' has chosen is certainly better than participating in the destruction of your community and justifying it by citing your individual needs. The path that Williams chose has much better odds of success than stealing or robbing. Too often, the only choice some black men feel they have is to get rich quick or die trying. That sounds alright when put to a hip-hop beat but is tragic when you see a young man laying in a coffin.
Another important aspect of this story is that adults were there to help Williams during his time of need. Imagine if Harris had not reached out to him about expanding his horizons. A more deadly influence could have just as easily slipped in when Williams was at his most vulnerable and desperate.
The positive role models must step up and fill the void. We have to serve as directional signs pointing young people toward the right path, maybe even giving them a lift to their destination.
I won't be surprised if I hear more positive things about this young man in the future. He's already cleared some difficult hurdles and is still running at full speed.
"I feel blessed," Williams said. "So many good things are happening to me."


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By: Cheryl on 6/16/2010 9:34PM
Beautiful story, quite inspiring, true example of achieving despite the odds. I wish him the best of luck in the future.
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By: Ladybug37 on 6/17/2010 7:15AM
Oh yes I saw this young man on the news the other day and said to myself. Girl you can't complain about nothing this man has gone through some serious challenges in his life and is making the best of himself. It serves to me as a message of strength, determination and focus, can't say what I would do given that situation. GOOG LUCK to Oranye Williams in his future. I better get off my ass and work it out. Inspiration is my motivation no excuses.
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By: stay positive on 6/18/2010 11:13AM
great uplifting article..
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By: Tricia on 6/19/2010 10:34AM
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By: J walker on 6/19/2010 11:49AM
It always amazes me, that when there is inspiring stories like these,comments are few, but a negative story about a young black man, comments are on numerous pages. Bill where are you on this one! ONE LOVE !!!!!!!!!!!!!
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By: Blessed People on 6/19/2010 1:26PM
You took the word's right out of my mouth! God's blessings to this young man with his future endeavors!
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By: Deborah on 6/19/2010 6:41PM
Orayne Williams, that was a beautiful story. With that determination you will do extremely well in life. Your story is a motiviation for all black young people. If any young person reads this story and don't get it, let me refrase that, if anybody reads this story and don't get it, then that would be a shame. This is a yound man who took his life experience and turning it into a postive. I am so proud of Orayne Williams.
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By: James V. Tyus Jr on 6/20/2010 6:06AM
Mr. Williams I must say that you are an inspiration to me and I'm sure your story can help and touch the lives of other young people who are facing many difficulties. I can attest to your story due to similarities in my life. I share my story with many young people that I come in contact with on a daily basis that I feel need a word of encouragement to over come obstacles they are facing from day to day. I grew up without my parents and had the determination within myself to succeed despite all odds that were against me. Continue to be the young man that you are with great determination and I look forward to reading more of your success in life.
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By: Orayne Williams on 1/22/2011 3:27PM
Thank you alot. And yes we have to use our struggles as a method to uplift other souls. I wish i have the opportunity to do more to encourage young black males.
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