
The Gay-Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) has gone hard against ABC and "The View" about recent comments made by host Sherri Shepherd and guest host D.L. Hughley. On the show, which aired June 22nd, Shepherd and Hughley linked the high rate of HIV among straight women in the black community to black men being on the "down low" or those who have sex with other men in private.
"When you look at the prevalence of HIV in the African-American community, it's primarily young women who are getting it from men who are on the down-low," Hughley said. He mentioned this while discussing the recent FDA ban on gay and bisexual men donating blood.
"[African-American men] are having sex with men, and they're not telling their girlfriends or their wives that they're gay," said Shepherd.
In response, GLAAD, the National Black Justice Coalition and the Black AIDS Institute have put out full-page ads in Variety, stating that the information shared on "The View" is inaccurate.
"The Centers for Disease Control has publicly disproven this myth. And since June 22nd, thousands of people have written to ABC, asking that 'The View' provide correct information to viewers," the ad reads. "Unfortunately, those requests have been greeted with silence from both ABC and 'The View.' When 'The View' talks about these kinds of issues, people listen. And there's a responsibility that comes with that."
Members of the scientific community are also backing the viewpoints of GLAAD and other groups that have protested:
Dr. Kevin Fenton, director of the CDC's National Center for HIV/AIDS, Viral Hepatitis, STD and TB Prevention, told NPR back in October 2009, "You need to look at the risk factors, which are far more prevalent in the community: having multiple sexual partners with unprotected sex with heterosexual partners, injecting drugs. Those are going to be factors which are far more prevalent in the population and are driving risks."
I've jumped all over D.L. Hughley in the past for engaging in incredibly ignorant commentary on national television. I remember the CNN show Hughley had ("DL Hughley Breaks the News"), where he engaged in a bunch of incredibly unfunny and stereotypical jokes about what it would mean to have a black president - you know, barbecue chicken, pimps, and all that other stupid stuff.
While politically incorrect commentary certainly has its place in nightclubs or Def Comedy Jam, it had no business being on CNN. Although CNN did the right thing and shut down Hughley's show after just one month, much of the damage had already been done. Obama was close to being nominated for president, and the show demoralized millions of Americans who'd become excited about Obama's candidacy. It was also quite telling that while African Americans can't get CNN to hire one single black host for its nighttime shows, it is all too willing to hire a comedian like D.L. Hughley to embarrass us.
I met Sherri Shepherd for the first time last month when she was a guest on my show, "Dr. Boyce Watkins on Aol. Black Voices." I can confirm to everyone reading that Sherri is incredibly sweet, humble and down to earth. She loves to kick it with a degree of realness that is far too rare among modern-day celebrities.
While I am one to give Sherri every accolade in the world, I also have to tell the truth: Sherri is a comedian and not necessarily someone equipped to do social commentary on critical issues that affect black America. The truth is that on this HIV/AIDS issue, having two black comedians discussing the results of scientific studies makes as much sense as Steve Harvey telling black folks how to manage their relationships. The point is that Sherri and D.L., being comedians, may not be the best in the world at dancing over delicate and impactful issues like this one. They are entertainment.
By simply making HIV/AIDS into a gay issue (and it certainly is a serious problem in the LGBT community), we are letting the rest of our community off the hook. Irresponsible sexual activity among heterosexuals (i.e., athletes, like former NBA player Winston Bennett, who had sex with as many as 90 women per month) has also led to the spread of disease throughout our community.
The tainted idea that you can sleep with as many people as you want as long as you wear a condom, well, perhaps we should think that one through as well. Our personal decisions eventually become chickens coming home to roost, and irresponsible choices almost always have long-term consequences.
Trying to say that AIDS is spreading because every other black man is on the down low is an Oprah-created myth that plagues every single black man in America. Perhaps we are shooting at all the wrong targets, which is why HIV continues to spread so rapidly.
Dr. Boyce Watkins is the founder of the Your Black World Coalition and a Scholarship in Action resident of the Institute for Black Public Policy. To have Dr. Boyce's commentary delivered to your e-mail, please click here. 

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By: Chocolaht on 7/14/2010 1:31PM
It's true that Sherri and DL are comedians, but the bottom line is.... MEN and MEN are NOT suppose to be lovers...The Anus IS NOT meant for sexual pleasure...thats where all the toxins come OUT of our body. Why would anyone in their "right" mind want to have a penis up in that toxin filled shaft??? There are many Black men having sex with men and taking their toxin covered penis back to the woman(women) in their life...thus setting up a higher chance for HIV to spread. I think anal sex is the root cause of HIV and AIDs because its simply unnatural.
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By: clarke on 7/14/2010 2:54PM
Chocolaht, I GUESS YOU DIDN'T KNOW THAT MEN CAN HAVE ANAL SEX WITH WOMEN TOO. THEY DO HAVE BUTTHOLES DON'T THEY. THERE IS A WHOLE(NO PUN INTENDED) SECTION IN MOST ADULT VIDEO STORES DEVOTED TO IT.
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By: Walter T3 on 7/14/2010 2:28PM
Although I believe Sheri Shepherd is entitled to her opinions and thoughts on the View, I have often found her comments on gays and the supposed gay agenda slanted and at times peppered with homophobia. Intellectually I find her to be vapid and more typical in her thinking than I dare dream on many subjects. I suppose she is entertaining to some folks, but as a serious academic and thinking individual she is surely lacking. One must always examine the source.
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By: ((( HiRoader ))) on 7/14/2010 2:35PM
I watched this and wondered how Sherri got away for so long with it (a week)... But ?The Gay-Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) group can sit this one out... Sherri's outburst was strictly directed in her regards to her "anti-black man tour"... She a hurt woman with a victimizing self-righteous crusade on the tear.., She's the new extreme of strong, sucessful BW women who are "publicly" ashamed of BM, At least that has been her "public" platform... These are the national TV panelist of successful, strong BW making televised consciousness discussion along with Steve Harvey in regards to why they think BM aren't steppin up to "THEY'RE" plates... Watching the veiw show (rarely)some how the topic came up., Sherri like a 4th grader raising her hand just dying to give the answer.., cuts in regurgitating the (DL)Urban myth... Lol (smh)... Though BM should worry, When the conservatives bring back Jim Crow & Lynching Sherri's the new extreme of successful strong woman who'll "don" her weave and scour the countryside carrying the rope while looking for no good BM who raped a white woman... Sorry, I lovededed Sherri but I'm innocent and P'd O ... (it because I'm a man & I'm black huh??) Lol
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By: clarke on 7/14/2010 3:01PM
MS SHEPPARD, IS STILL BITTER ABOUT THE BREAK UP OF HER SHORT MARRIAGE TO HER SONS FATHER. SO HER REMARKS DON'T REALLY SURPRISE ME TOO MUCH. DL ON THE OTHER HAND JUST NEEDS TO SHDAU.(SHUT HIS DUMB ASS UP)
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By: Bengals Baby on 7/15/2010 5:46PM
May I ask you something? Is there ANYTHING that you personally do not blame on YT? I doubt it because thats what you always do. Let me guess, YT broke the levees and flooded your neighborhoods with cocaine too. lol You must be one of those many blacks that are a complete failure. You can always tell. YT is against me and I was a slave. Oh and YT taught you rape and murder too. Everything be rayyycis n sheeeeit, GNOMESAYIN?
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By: Rick Cook on 7/14/2010 3:03PM
What Doc? There is a plethora of young men in prison that wear Kool Aid on their lips while in there, and become the Mack when they get out!!! This contributes to the HIV problem in the Black neck of the woods. Prison rape happens!!! Also, there are those who willingly engage in a gay life style while in. The mentality is that if you are the one doing the sticking you are not gay. The guy you rape is the gay one. That is the sick way they think!!!
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By: clarke on 7/14/2010 3:30PM
SO TELL US SOMTHING WE DON'T KNOW DOC. THIS IS NOTHING NEW, BEEN GOING ON FOR YEARS DOC, EVEN BEFORE ANY ONE HAD EVEN HEARD OF HIV/AIDS. DOC
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By: SisterTeddy on 7/14/2010 10:38PM
This kind of ignorance shows the power of money. There is a lot of money in drugs. Everyone knows drugs, even tobacco and alcohol, kill you, but they don't want to know how degraded they will become behind their drug habit, they like the money and power that come with dealing, they like being a "playa". Most A-A women who have AIDS got it from injecting drugs, not from sex. That is probably also true of men. I don't like cheating, I don't like lying, but I don't blame all the evils of the world on a few men who cheat and lie. If you really don't want male-on-male sex, close down the prisons. And if you really want people to practice safe sex, protest any time a police officer uses possession of condoms as self-evident proof that a woman is a hooker, and a judge buys into that argument.
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By: Da bigger picture on 7/14/2010 3:41PM
It all begins with parenting..
Think about!
Very few of us (young adults/kids) these days are being taught how to be sexually responsible..
Parents leave sexuality to be taught by tv, internet, etc., instead of taking a more active role in their childrens' sexual hygiene..
We don't have high expectations for our children and as a result they (kids/ young adults) don't have high expectations for themselves..
Couple that with all the contradictions in the messages fed to them by the media..
No kid says to themselves that they're going to grow up and be gay, bisexual, straight, lesbian, whatever and contract HIV or any other disease sexually transmitted..
What is happening is that as each generation is exposed to a certain lifestyle or living condition it becomes acceptable to live under those conditions because that is all that they know..
I have an example for that last statement:
I saw on tv someone disccusing about tipping..
"If you were not taught to tip as you grew older from childhood, then when you become an adult you think that tipping isn't necessary and therefore not done.."
Values that we once held dear to our culture which had sustained us through slavery has been eroded..
Our kids are being seriouly neglected and are taking sexual matters into their own hands..
I live in a place where kids are allowed to play at all times of the night and I'm talking well into 3am in morning with no parents around..
We are not really looking at things from not the big picture but the HUGE PICTURE of life and our culture..
Our kids are not being taught romance or to establish a family with a high level of solidarity.. They're being taught to be abusive, controlling, manipulative, etc (everything outside of the American dream)..
I understand that everyone is their own person and makes decisions likewise..
I also understand that mine, yours, and everyone's vision/view of the world on which our decision are based on is what we obtained in our upbringing..
The only way we're going to put a stop on every sexual disease out there is to be more proactive in our childrens' lives..
We need to hold ourselves and our kids to higher standard..
I myself, before my son was born became abstinent because I understand the implication of living a reckless lifestyle, as well, as me being an example for my son..
The idea of all of this is to say that "When you know better, you do better!"
We do know better but the ? remains, will we do better?
Why don't we do better?
Note: HIV isn't real until it's at your front door..
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