
An Ohio woman who helped counsel countless couples experiencing marital discord was found stabbed to death on Monday. The suspect is her husband.
Tonya Hunter(pictured below), owner of the marriage counseling service Success 1 Services in Bedford Heights, Ohio, met her husband, Maurice Lyons (pictured above), last year, when he attended a class that she taught on anger management. The 42-year-old woman married Lyons last December, but almost immediately, the marriage grew sour because it was fraught with financial problems: Hunter owned two homes, which are both facing foreclosure; had college loans; credit cards; and a car loan debt that totaled to nearly $500,000.

There were two police reports filed by Hunter against her husband for domestic violence. The last complaint was filed two weeks ago. According to police investigators, this report stated that Lyons appeared to be high on drugs and was demanding money from Hunter. "The defendant then pushed Hunter/spouse against the kitchen sink." Hunter's 4-year-old son witnessed the beating.
Hunter, who was pursuing a doctoral degree in marriage and family counseling at the University of Akron in addition to teaching at the University of Phoenix, ran a domestic violence group session every Wednesday at her office. Ironically, her website states that her company's services will "provide you with the knowledge and understanding of how relationships works and how problems can be resolved in even the most challenging situations."
When Lyons met his wife, he had been recently released from prison. He had served time in Illinois for aggravated battery, intimidation and vehicular invasion. The repeat offender also has a criminal record in Missouri and Ohio. People thought that the pairing of both Hunter and Lyons was very odd. Hunter was viewed as being outgoing and friendly, while Lyons was quiet and reserved.
Two weeks ago, with her young son in tow, Hunter had visited various building personnel where she worked, , to tell them to call the police immediately if they saw Lyons anywhere near the building. Many people in the office building had known about Lyon's prison record, and some even changed the locks on their doors when warned by Hunter.
Hunter called police to complain that she had been inundated with threatening phone calls from Lyons, where he allegedly said he wanted to punch her in the face and kill her. On July 20th, police issued a warrant for Lyon's arrest.
A week before she was found dead, Lyons could not be found. When Hunter was discovered stabbed to death in her garage, her son was dropped off on a street corner. Investigators did not state who abandoned the boy on the street. The little boy was taken to county social workers and interviewed, where he said that his mother was killed and lying in a garage.
Lyons was arrested last Monday and charged two days later with aggravated murder in his wife's stabbing death and domestic violence.
Here's the thing, most past convicts are usually attempting to readjust to society's values, norms and relationships outside prison walls.
Why this educated woman would marry a man who was convicted of aggravated assault is beyond me.
I'm not saying people don't change, but what I am saying is that this man couldn't have had that much to offer her. Lyons was enrolled in Hunter's anger management classes, for goodness sake. Clearly he needed some time to become stable both mentally and physically. Hunter was getting her doctorate in marriage and family counseling. As a professional, she should have left this one alone.
And what of the poor 4-year-old? How will he become anything different from his "father," when he has witnessed battery and possibly murder. With no Mother, and a "Father" who has abandoned him, who will love and nurture this child? As Mothers, we have to do better with our choices in men. If we can't at least do it for ourselves, we should at least do it for our children.


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By: paul on 7/28/2010 3:03PM
That wasn't his kid if what you say is true about them meeting last year. She couldn't have a 4 year old with a guy she met in '09.
Anyway - how embarrassing for both U of Akron and U of Phoenix.
Very irresponsible of her to expose her son that that kind of garbage. I guess she paid the price for her decisions, but what a shame for the kid. You can't pick your parents.
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By: carla ford on 7/28/2010 4:27PM
As together as she was in her career choices & education, she was obviously not as together when choosing a mate. What was the initial attraction for her?
To the author of the article, please get your facts straight before reporting news. It was stated in another article that he was NOT the father of her 4 year old.
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By: paul on 7/28/2010 4:31PM
quitehonestly:
Nestled deep inside the hatred and rage, you do have a point. Over 70% of black babies these days are born out of wedlock. I know that doesn't automatically mean they are born to single parent homes, but at least it's a partner she's not entirely committed to, and has an easy way out of the relationship.
That means it's now the 'normal' thing to do. Normal, to a lot of people, means 'healthy' or 'good', but that couldn't be further from the truth. In this case it's destroying the race.
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By: Fashionedbygod33 on 7/29/2010 12:00PM
@Paul,
I don't understand why this would be embarrassing for the University of Akron and UOP. I really don't get your point.
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By: paul on 7/29/2010 12:19PM
UofA gave her a degree in family and marriage counseling. She obviously didn't learn anything if her life was such a mess.
UofP hired her to teach classes on the subject, and it turns out she should have been attending them.
That's all. It's like having a driving instructor get hit by a train while sneaking around the gate. So ridiculous it's almost funny.
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By: Clinesha18 on 7/29/2010 3:09PM
For those who don't understand the family rule of marrige, if one with a child gets married then that child becomes the spouses child(step-child) which would make him the father (step-father). Biological or not, he was this childs father through marriage.
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By: stupidasstupidwas on 7/28/2010 4:35PM
Typical black woman, and the reason I said black woman is because we are talking about a black on black crime. It happens all the time, black women selecting the wrong guys, for marriage. Now here's a perfectly good woman(at least on the surface)and she goes out an marry an ex-convict with an anger problem. Duh, you can't fix idiots so, it's best to leave them where they stand. Why? I've seen it since the 80's where the sistas' would select a dope-dealer over a college student(someone trying to advance themselves). Because the dealer had a better car. Wow! Well, he would proceed to impregnate her and eventually end-up either dead or in jail. Now she's without skills or money but, a few extra mouths to feed. Looking for the old college guy to give her the time of day. Hahahaha. I think not. Like quite honestly said you have just screwed-up the black family structure by plucking this idiot. All because he had a pocket full or instant money and a clean car. Wow! Talking about a sell-out. But, sista wonder why brothers with money select the other race. Well, look no farther than yourselves for pushing him away when he didn't have anything but, now wanting him when he's achieved something. What a nightmare for this black boy. Sad, Sad commentary. But, so consistent.
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By: Justdoright on 7/28/2010 11:17PM
I Couldn't Have Agreed With You More stupidasstupidwas. I was telling a female something similar to what you said. Black women do that alot. Quit the college going man for instant cash from a DOG than gets impregnated and dogged out, and now wants the college brother back. Use your brain Black Women. It starts with the ladies own parents, if they are bor nout of wetlock, the saga continues. The real truth is Blacks were forced to lose each other during slavery, now blacks are not forced and continuing a horrible tradition.
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By: k m on 7/30/2010 8:36AM
White women make bad choices, too! Women in general need to think of their children before bringing a man into the house. A counselor should have known better than to get involved with someone with his background.
A tragic situation all around. Prayers going out to the 4yo.
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By: ShellyB on 7/29/2010 12:31PM
Really Stupidasstupiddoes? Maybe you grew up with people who act as you claim "typical black women" do in your ignorant rant but I didn't grow up like that and I know a lot of black women who didn't either. Just because you grew up poor and ignorant from a broken home and a slutty mom, don't try to say that is how the majority of black women were raised.
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