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And the Father should be SHAME knowing she had those issue an doing nothing about it? GOOD GRIEF?
...Let's not be so stupid not to understand the American laws regarding who owns the children-the mother. Nothing this father could have done or said would have mattered to the court system here, the mother actually has the right to kill her children, and most times get away with it--using created syndromes that benefit mothers. There are no syndromes for fathers. The father did what the legal system wanted; mind his own business and pay child support. He had no absolute right to his children; the mother did. She was their god with the power to abuse without punishment or kill without punishment. She didn't have to kill herself; she would have gottened away with it. As a father, I am glad she no longer exist for what she did. This is at least one way she is equal to a father had he done such an act.

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Hi John:

You replied to my comment on a previous topic a few days ago. The topic was in reference to "A woman who was killed by her boyfriend." I wanted to reply to you. In your message you asked me "What my reaction would be to a woman abusing a man." My reaction would be the same. Why? because I am a Domestic Violence Counselor and I have ZERO tolerance for any person Man, Woman or Child who purposely abuses another being. For the past 14 years I've counseled Women, Children and Men who have been abused. In my eyes abuse can strike at anyone it has no reasoning or gender. Be it Man, Woman or Child most times abusers strike at people and or animals that are defensless. I will say this again I have ZERO tolerance for Abusers. As a Domestic Violence Counselor my priority is to promote abuse awareness and prevention and to counsel, comfort and help Men, Women and Children who are being abused by Husband, Wife, Partner, Lover, Friend, Parent. In my world abuse is NOT gender, race, bias it can and does affect the lives of both Men and Women including the most defensless, Elderly, People with mental and physical disabilities, Children and Animals.

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John, you are correct in saying that violence by women is oftentimes overlooked and accepted. This is wrong and that is why female aggression has become so pervasive in this society. I hear alot of anger and pain from you but don't blame women, and particularly this dead woman, for the way the judicial system operates. One of the reasons why the courts favor women is because alot of men have simply given up on their financial responsibilities as fathers. The courts operate in the best interests of the children. Yes, it is quite unfortunate that many of the good fathers such as yourself have to suffer more but what you should do is do like Rosa Parks did. If you're tired of the way men get treated in the legal system then do something about it. Peace.

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John, you need to go to the nearest mental health facility. You sound like you have many issues and they may have started with you not liking your Mother, all the way to you not liking women at all. You sound like a serial killer in the making. Men and women are not created equally in our world and if you don't know that by now, then when will you. Step away from the computer and go see a doctor asap.

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By: sheshe on 8/01/2010 11:13PMNeutral John, you need to go to the nearest mental health facility. You sound like you have many issues and they may have started with you not liking your Mother,
....Wow, you really hate men who tell the truth. I can't say I wasn't looking for you to rear your evil head. I know we don't know one another, but when good talks about the monster called VIOLENCE, the followers of VIOLENCE who enjoy being evil and mean to innocent people come in for the attack. I'm not interested in you at this time, be gone, be gone and tell your master-VIOLENCE, I will continue coming after it. I don't have to raise a cross to you since you have already acknowledged me as a followers of GOD. You should be careful with the love one you are violent to, he may become a man and protect himself, and then call the police.

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By: Sue on 8/01/2010 10:08AMNeutral Hi John:

You replied to my comment on a previous topic a few days ago. The topic was in reference to "A woman who was killed by her boyfriend." I wanted to reply to you. In your message you asked me "What my reaction would be to a woman abusing a man." My reaction would be the same. Why? because I am a Domestic Violence Counselor and I have ZERO tolerance for any person Man, Woman or Child who purposely abuses another being.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Hello Sue, if you are a domestic violence counselor, why do you allow domestic violence power wheels to target only men rather than supporting wheels that are gender neutral, because the monster/evil is the violence and anyone harmed by that violence should be considered a victim. There are many men being abused based on those power wheels that are extremely bias against males. Most people are like sheep and their acceptance of any word/s or messages from a professional organization is fact and true to them. In this country, the majority have lose their ability to think for themselves and use "cause and effect, and the probabilities of laws and policies that may negatively effect people over time. On reviewing the violence and abuse wheels, only the "abuse of children" wheel is the best and non-gender bias. This is the model for all violence, not the politically and female gender bias power wheels which ignore neutrality, but target only males. Let's talk about the domestic violence power wheel's parts on the black voices board, and go over each, because the power wheels only talks about fears of women, but men have the same fears of losing their children, being told who can and can't come over to their homes by their g/fs and wives, etc. So, you see the wheels harm not only men but children, who are left with abusive and dangerous mothers.

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By: Sue on 8/01/2010 10:08AMNeutral Hi John:

hello Sue, would you go to youtube.com and view the video, "reaction to woman abusing a man in public."

These are the same people who make laws and policies dealing with domestic violence and they show no concern to stopping violence let along preventing the re-cycling of violence in the home. To stop violence, you must stop all violence the same way without exceptions.

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