
Nadin Khoury (pictured), a 13-year-old son of Liberian immigrants living in Philadelphia, was viciously attacked, beaten and terrorized by a group of seven young men while on his way home from school.
He was jumped, kicked, punched, stuffed in a tree and ultimately hung from a fence outside of his apartment complex, and as often happens these days, one of the alleged attackers filmed the assualt and later posted the incident on YouTube.
In the video, the attackers can be heard laughing at him as he desperately tries to get away.
"It's bullying. It's bullying in America at its worst," said Michael Chitwood, superintendent of police in Upper Darby Township, Pa.
Khoury was not seriously injured in the beating, but he has been unable to go to school because of the threats he and his family have received since the attack. He said the teens, who range in age from 15 to 17, had bothered him before and his family will likely have to move to a different town.
Unfortunately, videos of young people engaging in violence is all too common, yet this video seems to also showcase the failure of the community in a way words never could.
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Khoury had reported prior bullying incidents to his school and they did nothing. As you can see in the video, a woman walks by Nadin as he is being attacked and crying out for help, and she does nothing. In fact, according to the police, not one person in the neigborhood ever called for help.
Chitwood believes that people need to take responsibility for bullies in their communities:
"I find it offensive when members of the community stand up and talk about the cops not doing something when not one person called 911," he said.
The officer is absolutely right.
How can we continue to complain that the lives of our children are marginalized and not taken seriously by the police and the media, when our own behavior indicates that we could care less. We don't value our young people enough to help them when they are being beaten in front of our eyes. How can we expect society-at-large to care about our communities if we don't?
The seven teens were arrested and led out of their school in handcuffs Monday. They were booked at a juvenile detention facility on charges of kidnapping, reckless endangerment and assault:
"We're dragging them out in handcuffs," Chitwood said, according to the Delaware County Daily Times. "We want to send home a message that this type of behavior will absolutely not be tolerated."
It is sad that a police chief must declare that this behavior won't be tolerated, instead of the Mothers, Fathers, Brothers, Sisters, neighbors and school personnel.
The only bright light of this story is Nadin Khoury. Instead of retreating to the shadows afraid of retribution by the thugs in his neighborhood, he will speak out against these criminals, abandoning the ultra-dumb "stop snitching" philosophy that has paralyzed our neighborhoods and left our worst predators on the street.
Nadin said he plans to testify against the teens in court:
"Don't be afraid to speak out; tell somebody what's going on, because if you tell them, maybe this will happen and somebody will take action," he told NBC. Nadin is a hero to all of those who feel abandoned and left to fend for themselves amongst the bullies of the world.
"There's nothing you can do," Khoury told Fox 29 in Philadelphia. "You can't fight back or it comes down even worse. You can't say anything except call for help."
Khoury said the group of teens targeted others as well:
"They do it for no reason," he said. "Anybody that's smaller than them, just to get their kicks."
But Nadin did call for help, and no one answered.
I hope that his story will illustrate to us that we owe our children so much more than the latest i-gadget or the newest pair of Jordan's. It is our responsibility to protect them from harm and reinforce that they are valuable human beings with limitless potential.
We have no right to continue to expect others to fight for our young people while we sit idly by, too scared, too busy or too disgusted to intervene.
At the end of the day, we are responsible for our neighborhoods and our children. Nadin, or any other young person, should never doubt that if they are in trouble, there will always be someone there to help.
What's the point of having a black president if we continue to abandon future Barack Obamas, often letting them die in the street without a second glance?
With our apathy, we risk allowing an entire generation to languish and fail. Hopefully, Nadin's bravery and determination to do the right thing will inspire us all to do better by our children.


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By: jeromequigley on 2/02/2011 1:45PM
Jam, no way to express or add anything further than what you wrote...so my only words are "THANKS! THANKS FOR THE GUTS YOU SHOW IN STORIES THEY WILL MAKE SOME COME DOWN ON YOU. BUT MAINLY THANKS FOR SHOWING THAT WE AS A COUNTRY NEED TO BE THE ONE'S STICKING UP FOR ALL CHILDREN WHEN THEY NEED US AND NOT JUST ACTING LIKE SOME ONE ELSE WILL/SHOULD DO SOME THING SO I DON'T HAVE TOO"!! You Rock as Always!! Also glad this young man has learned a early lesson that most adults have and still fail to learn. If you don't fight back or press charges the criminals/bullies then know they OWN YOU and that no matter what they do, you will not stand up for yourself. Then you will be there victim every day. What's the saying "
Cowards die many times before their deaths; The valiant never taste of death but once." William Shakespeare!! Will knew a thing or 2!!!
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By: westfall on 2/02/2011 1:58PM
It's shameful that we give our kids up to these supposedly responsible adults and when they need help, no one responds. The same thing happened to my grandchild, but we, the family handled it. We bugged, hounded, printed out all of the cyberbullying pages, went to the police, the school police, the district, and were in the process of calling the local newspaper, when a member of my family had to step in to handle it. We just refused to allow our children to be victims when they are supposed to be enjoying the best years of their lives. I pray everday for those children who are being bullied and living a hell on earth because of it. I hope these little thugs are prosecuted along with their parents. Until there are meaningful consequences, it will continue.
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By: Brady on 2/02/2011 3:45PM
@Westfall
Good for u. Call the cops, use the system, snitch, what ever must done (legally), to stop this BS.
Good and decent, hardworking black folk terrorized in their own communites by their own, children cant even enjoy being a child and we are supposed to feel sorry for those who go to jail for it. FU--EM!
Are we to continue to blame others for our own uncivilized unproductive behavior, as Ms Donaldson says, "there are somethings we can do ourselves"
I'll add ridding our communites of these social cancers is a good start.
Westfall, continue to take care of your family. Good for u.
‘The only thing necessary for the triumph [of evil] is for good men to do nothing.’ And dam liberals arent helping.
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By: martin on 2/02/2011 3:20PM
unbelievable. Those kids should be charge with gang related crimes for this crime
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By: Tporter356 on 2/05/2011 9:58AM
They should be charged with a hate crime, point blank. Children need to be taught that this type of behavior is not exceptable.
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By: Brady on 2/02/2011 3:25PM
Damn it Jam
This is why ur my girl. Your BV's peers wouldve found some kind of way to blame others, for this nonsense.
Ya see "it’s the oppressive sociological condition emanating for the remnants of slavery, that forces these kids to act like rabid animals preying on the weak", so until we deal with the forces of oppression, then we can expect this kind of behavior".
Personally I hope those animals get the opportunity to contribute "the prison industrial complex", so that people can live and go to school in peace.
You girl are a welcomed and much needed breath of fresh air. Now stop messing around and get another book on the shelf. I read your first in 4 days, and Im tired of waiting. (lol)
Take care
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By: Jam Donaldson on 2/02/2011 6:30PM
LOL!!!! I can only be me.... :-)
That quote was on point though. lol! Thanks for your positive feedback on the book. I really appreciate your support.
jam
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By: jeromequigley on 2/03/2011 1:13PM
Brady, you NAILED THAT STATEMENT!!! "the prison industrial complex", I wonder which writer would of said those kinds of things??? Oh I am sure it will come to me later at my DR'S appointment. But Also Yes, Jam is my SHERO TOO!!! I normally agree with her views but have disagreed with a few. But the great thing with her is you can have a debate with out it getting personal or ugly (at least that's been my experience, but I am always sure to treat/talk to her in that same manner)! I try and keep myself informed about many things in the world and Jam has been my favorite writer (living and still very active and passionate) for a while now. I will be keeping an eye out for the new book too as I am sure many are!!
As for the first part of your comment Brady, yes it is terrible how we as a society try and dismiss our own direct actions by blaming some other's indirect and some times old (20-100 years ago time line)actions for what is going on NOW!! I watched a interview last night w/Bill Cosby and his beef with Michael Eric Dyson!! And that seems to be the difference in their views to me. As you can imagine I agree with Mr Cosby, it is up to each and every one of us to make our situation, neighborhood, town, school etc...BETTER!! It was just interesting that I read this earlier yesterday and was channel surfing late at night after wife and son went to bed and that JUST happened to be the show I saw!! Finally, I just hope no one convinces this young man that he is a Victim! Meaning that it is some thing that is going to haunt him or causing him to be afraid of things he really shouldn't be. Of course you live and learn(street smarts) but you also have to accept that it could happen again and still take the risk!! Brady if you are on Jam's friend list on F/B you should send me a invite. You should be able to figure out who I am...start with the 'D's. Peace Brother Brady!!!
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By: sam on 2/04/2011 11:50AM
What has slavery got to do with this incident? Have you not seen those individuals that are so-call privledged killing their spouses, raping their children, making bombs to blow up people; and killing innocent children and causing major harm to innocent victims in AZ? This is NOT a Black or white issue. Didn't some young white, innocent young lady committ suicide last year because she was bullied -- and by the way -- she was in a quite affluent neighborhood school. So... spare us from trying to point the finger and acting like these kind of incidents happen in just one community.
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By: David on 2/03/2011 11:30PM
Brady is a WHITE RACIST in here commenting under different screen names. Sadly this story is mainly being commented on by white racist.
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