
After being told by her 6-year-old daughter that a boy hit her, 29-year-old Ticora Daniels (pictured) stormed on to a Broward County, Fla., school bus and slapped the boy's hands from his mouth.
Caught on surveillance video, the visibly upset Ms. Daniels is seen saying:
"Don't touch my child. I don't give a f**k." When the bus driver refused to allow Daniels to leave because he was radioing in the incident, Daniels' agitation grew:
"Let me off this f--kin' bus," she screamed.
Daniels was arrested Tuesday and charged with burglary with assault or battery and child abuse without great harm.
"Yeah, my daughter hit the kid -- wouldn't you have?" Daniels' mother told NBCMiami.
Well, at least we know where Daniels gets it from.
When Daniels appeared in court on Wednesday morning, Judge John Hurley was empathetic, yet firm:
"I can understand as a parent, somebody abusing your child and you're gonna go on the bus," he said. "But in this case, the court has to follow the law."
"Emotionally, my heart goes out to your client, but legally, I have to follow the law," the judge told Daniels' lawyer.
Daniels, who was on probation for driving with a suspended license, claims she got on the bus in the first place because she did not want the boy, who allegedly has had trouble in the past, to hit her daughter.
I could give a politically correct opinion of this buffoonery, but I won't. I see nothing wrong with a mother defending her child. If anyone ever so much as laid a finger on my children, it would take all my willpower not to immediately react instinctively, and I can't honestly say what that reaction might be.
Storming a public school bus full of children and then slapping a child's hand out of his mouth, though, is nothing short of ignorant.
Ms. Daniels had ample time to process the situation; yet, the only response she could muster was bullying a 7-year-old boy? Calling the police, notifying the school and parents and demanding the boy be suspended are all effective actions she could have taken.
From bullying to high-jackings to collisions and gun fire, school buses have gained notoriety for not being the safest place for our children. Now, we also have to be concerned with mothers bogarting their way on board and then physically assaulting our children?
Call me old fashioned, but I believe that violence begets violence.
How can we teach our children not to be bullies, when we, as parents, show them that it's acceptable to use force to solve our problems? Daniels clearly did not approach that situation as if she were dealing with a child - she looked and sounded like she was about to go fight another adult.
Though it probably made her feel powerful, putting her hands on that child was a completely selfish action. The young boy walks away from that experience embarrassed, and a young boy with something to prove can be a dangerous thing.
Bullying a child does not make someone a good mother, and showing a child that you're willing to use violence to validate your love for them is unhealthy on many levels. With the excessive news coverage of the incident and her mother's arrest, this could prove to be a pivotal learning lesson for Daniel's daughter.
Ms. Daniels also has the opportunity to not only show her daughter what behavior is appropriate to exhibit, but also what behavior to expect in return. Hopefully, she seizes it, but I doubt it, because she just "doesn't give a f--k."
Watch the incident here:
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By: Bruce on 3/09/2011 11:27AM
Kirsten,
A 29 year old hopping on a school bus to smack a seven year old and use the F word warrents serious action against this , what ever you want to call her.
What's next, the father of the boy does a beat down on the offending mother. The Judge is wrong in this case. Motherhood doesn't trump the protection of seven year old offenders.
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By: Andrew Thompson on 3/10/2011 9:17AM
Excuse you how in good conscience call the judge wrong when he acknowledged to the fact that he understood in how the mother felt but reminded her of the consequences when taking the law into your own hands.
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By: brittany on 3/11/2011 6:34PM
kids will be kids ....think about how the boys mother feels that a "GROWN" ass women smack his hand?? i have a son if i found out a women got on the bus and but her hands on him there would be hell to pay and the bus driver shouldnt have let her on the bus.......if she was a mother she would have went to the school
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By: soundoff on 3/10/2011 7:46PM
As sad as this may sound it is becoming evident that offenders are learning early about crime and bad behavior. It really does not matter what you teach your kids other kids will uninstall it willingless and unmericaful due to their upbringing by bad parenting. Bad parents will not lift a finger to make their unruliy childern behave so in saying this I sympathize with the mother thi other child has been fore warned!
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By: sam on 3/11/2011 4:42AM
simple: if you don't want your kids slapped by other people, teach them to behave
you ignorant parents out there know your kids are bullies and then act all surprised when they get mollywhopped by somebody or grow up and become criminals/wife beaters
this mother should be released and REWARDED for paying attention to her daughter's matters unlike a lot of folks who don't give a damm what their kids are going through
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By: Mrs. Aguirre on 3/16/2011 12:54PM
@ Sam's responce, I agree with most of what you said However, the Mother lost me when the "I dont give a F**K" came out of her mouth in front of a bus load of kids. Children need to know discipline even if its someone outside of the Family who has to teach it...But Children Do NOT need Profanity...Now someone needs to go pop her in the mouth.
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By: rjb4phd on 3/27/2011 6:41PM
She shouldn't have smacked his hands, he needed a firm swat on the butt! Spare the rod, spoil the child. Why is that such a foreign concept in a country full of "good-ole Christians?"
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By: jaxxy21 on 3/09/2011 12:05PM
My daughter was bullied at school too. The effects of that are far-reaching. Until your child has been bullied you can't possibly know how that feels. I went to the school, went to the other parents, enrolled her in martial arts,,, and the kids still bullied her. Finally i took each child aside and told them what i would do to them if they in any way touched her again,,,all without witnesses and each kid knew I meant it. No one ever touched her after that. I never hit any kids but i have no doubt they knew i meant business.
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By: dvine on 3/09/2011 12:49PM
i feel you but you can't put your hands on someone else's child especially if they are a minor.. that's jail-time.. maybe she should've went to the school, board of ed, bus company of the driver because i'm sure he knew what was going on.. parents need to teach their children - keep your hands to yourself..
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By: wendy on 3/09/2011 4:11PM
I feel ya, its easy for us to sit here and say what we would or would not do but until it happens to you dont judge
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