Jam Donaldson
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Jam Donaldson
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In a suburb of Washington D.C., a Germantown teacher was forced to apologize to a student after telling her she was dressed like a prostitute.
Continue reading Teacher Calls Student 'Prostitute,' I Think She Deserves an Award

After reading one blogger's posting, regarding Dan Rather's comment about President Barack Obama and watermelons on Sunday's Chris Matthew's show, I thought it only fair to offer Dan Rather's response.
I must say it is shocking, and I am somewhat disappointed that so many of us will go in to a hissy fit about a comment like this, but then we sit mute as unemployment benefits were threatened and are deafeningly silent with regard to rap lyrics that denigrate us all. For what it's worth, I was watching the show at the time and was definitely not offended. Perhaps it's because I haven't inextricably tied my own identity to every mention of the word watermelon. But that's just me... I actually think Rather's response is a thoughtful commentary on media and the histrionics regarding race. It originally appeared on The Huffington Post:
Continue reading 'Watermelons, Washington and What We Call News Today': Dan Rather Says STFU

As news hit the Net that Jennifer Hudson has set a wedding date to marry baby dady David Otunga, there were a flurry of congratulatory comments and well wishes from fans and supporters. However, there is a solid contingent that remains quite suspect about Mr. Otunga and his motives. Sure he's a Harvard Law grad, but did he ever pass the bar? Is the former contestant who once battled for the love of the skanky New York and who has now turned to professional wrestling merely an opportunist who wants to make it big in Hollywood by any means necessary? And is Jhud just his meal ticket to the big time? We definitely wish them the best, but the naysayers got me thinking about how often we stand by and watch our friends and family marry people that we have deep reservations about.
I wonder if those closest to Jennifer ever expressed these concerns or was everyone just "happy" because they were finally getting married?

I guess I'm at that age where my peers and I are beyond the bridal showers and engagement parties and the big weddings. I have reached the point where many of my peers have been married for a year or more. The romantic image many women had of marriage has long been chucked aside, and reality has set in - for better or for worse.
Continue reading I Married a Loser: Why Didn't Anyone Tell Me?

Finally, there is a man who makes men feel the exact way we women feel about Beyonce.
Wait, hear me out now.
Most women feel (though some may not admit it-haters) that Beyonce is this sickeningly perfect example of womanhood, and frankly we're sick of it. She makes you shift in your seat whenever you have to watch her in the presence of your significant other. Your man tries not to ogle her openly, but he rarely succeeds.
She can do no wrong-- she's beautiful and seems like a nice girl. There are no naughty lesbian rumors about her or diva-bitch-stories we can use to make ourselves feel better. No weight problem, no drug addiction, no abusive ex-husband, no teen love baby. You scour every picture for flaws, nothing. I don't care how high your self-esteem is, she's the woman you never want to be in the same room with. Because, you know, that as much as your man loves you, he will not be able to resist the magnetic pull of his eyes toward her. We women seem doomed to co-exist with this sexy, talented, freak of nature who constantly reminds us of the cellulite on the back of our thighs.
Continue reading Barack Is Like Beyonce for Men

I know sometimes we are all a sucker for a good beat, a nice melody and a sweet voice. A current song that has recently made its way to the top of the charts, though, has got to be the worst thing to happen to women since stiletto heels. When I first heard this tune, I wasn't familiar with Melanie Fiona (pictured above). I just knew that every time I heard the pathetic, desperate lyrics, I was disgusted.
Continue reading Melanie Fiona's 'It Kills Me': The Desperate, Pathetic Woman's Anthem

It may come as a surprise to most that the U.S. Department of Agriculture's federal food stamp program authorizes the use of "food stamps" at restaurants. The restaurant food stamp program, however, has been in effect since 1974 for elderly and disabled patrons, and since 1992, for homeless people. The creation of "Restaurant Meals" under the USDA's food stamp program began with a noble mission: It's goal was to assist the poor elderly and disabled, who were unable to cook their own meals. The benefit was then extended to the homeless, who had no access to kitchens or storage facilities, making it unfeasible to shop at grocery stores and prepare food.
Continue reading Fast Food and Food Stamps: A Recipe for Disaster

I don't know if she tripped over a black cat and broke a mirror while carrying salt, but Angela Martin may just be the unluckiest woman in America.
Martin is one of those hopeful, starry-eyed contestants that audition year after year for "American Idol," hoping for overnight fame and fortune. And unlike most contestants, Martin is actually very talented. She has auditioned three times for the show, and three times she has made it to the much-beloved Hollywood.
Continue reading American Idol's Angela Martin: The Unluckiest Woman In America